"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is my **** causing her pain during sex?

Brighty

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Basically my **** naturally curves upwards and its between 6.5 to 7 inches. Here's an odd visual, I know, but it looks something like this when its inside her:

http://www.churchofthebanana.com/userfiles/banana_peeled.jpg

When we're fvcking and when I thrust deep or sometimes just when I'm in her she gets this severe pain and we have to stop. She isn't sure whether it is a physical pain or a mental pain and we've been fvcking for the past two months and its only become a problem in the past three weeks. Every single time we've tried to have sex in the past three weeks its ended with her in pain, turning her off completely, and we both have to stop, except for one time (must've been a fluke or something, then again it wasn't very long).

I keep telling her to talk to someone about it or have it examined but she constantly refuses, so every time we have sex it always ends with me stopping. Do you guys know what this might be? I don't think its my size, I'm not the biggest guy she's been with and if it was my size I think it would've been an issue earlier in the relationship.

Did something happen to her pvssy that she's not telling me about or she doesn't know about? It's just odd how she won't have someone take a look at it or at least talk to someone, so I figured I might ask you guys to see if anyone has any ideas?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Brighty

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KontrollerX said:
She wet enough? You two use any lube??

She's always wet, she gets really turned on when we're together. Half the times we've fvcked she's been soaking, when we stop she says different things, sometimes she's says it feels like I'm hitting something, other times she says its a mental thing where she gets freaked out. The only thing with this that makes me wonder is that we haven't had this problem until a few weeks ago.
 
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Brighty said:
I don't think its my size, I'm not the biggest guy she's been with
Damn, bro. You would think if she's been with a huge mauler that she'd be good to go for you. Maybe she isn't relaxing enough?
 

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Rule number one: if it hurts, go to a gynaecologist! You are young and I think so is your GF. Young girls don´t like gynaecologists, but let me explain this way: If you drive a car, sooner or later you have to meet a mechanic. Send her to the gynaecologist!

Rule number two: if it hurts, try another position.

Rule numer three: her problem isn´t your problem. Let her solve it! If she can´t, go and find an other chick. Don´t want to solve her problems, otherwise you will end up acting like her father. And father don´t fvck thier own daughters (generally).

PS.: Congratulations, your d!ck looks like a G-Spot dildo. Actually she should be happy with it...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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