"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is my **** causing her pain during sex?

Brighty

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Basically my **** naturally curves upwards and its between 6.5 to 7 inches. Here's an odd visual, I know, but it looks something like this when its inside her:

http://www.churchofthebanana.com/userfiles/banana_peeled.jpg

When we're fvcking and when I thrust deep or sometimes just when I'm in her she gets this severe pain and we have to stop. She isn't sure whether it is a physical pain or a mental pain and we've been fvcking for the past two months and its only become a problem in the past three weeks. Every single time we've tried to have sex in the past three weeks its ended with her in pain, turning her off completely, and we both have to stop, except for one time (must've been a fluke or something, then again it wasn't very long).

I keep telling her to talk to someone about it or have it examined but she constantly refuses, so every time we have sex it always ends with me stopping. Do you guys know what this might be? I don't think its my size, I'm not the biggest guy she's been with and if it was my size I think it would've been an issue earlier in the relationship.

Did something happen to her pvssy that she's not telling me about or she doesn't know about? It's just odd how she won't have someone take a look at it or at least talk to someone, so I figured I might ask you guys to see if anyone has any ideas?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Brighty

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KontrollerX said:
She wet enough? You two use any lube??

She's always wet, she gets really turned on when we're together. Half the times we've fvcked she's been soaking, when we stop she says different things, sometimes she's says it feels like I'm hitting something, other times she says its a mental thing where she gets freaked out. The only thing with this that makes me wonder is that we haven't had this problem until a few weeks ago.
 
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Brighty said:
I don't think its my size, I'm not the biggest guy she's been with
Damn, bro. You would think if she's been with a huge mauler that she'd be good to go for you. Maybe she isn't relaxing enough?
 

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Rule number one: if it hurts, go to a gynaecologist! You are young and I think so is your GF. Young girls don´t like gynaecologists, but let me explain this way: If you drive a car, sooner or later you have to meet a mechanic. Send her to the gynaecologist!

Rule number two: if it hurts, try another position.

Rule numer three: her problem isn´t your problem. Let her solve it! If she can´t, go and find an other chick. Don´t want to solve her problems, otherwise you will end up acting like her father. And father don´t fvck thier own daughters (generally).

PS.: Congratulations, your d!ck looks like a G-Spot dildo. Actually she should be happy with it...
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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