"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is modern dating better in smaller cities?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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People with abnormal sexual orientations fare better in crowded cities than in rural communities where their aberrance would be noticed immediately.
Everyone who's willing to exploit the increase in opportunities fares better in urban areas
 

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Here’s an older tune about the differences
by Leon Russell (1942-2016)

Woman of the country now I've found you
Longing in your soft and fertile delta
And I whisper sighs to satisfy your longing
For the warmth and tender shelter of my body

Oh you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
Yes, you're my, me oh my, Delta Lady

Please don't ask how many times I found you
Standing wet and naked in the garden
And I think of days and diff'rent ways I held you
Held you closely to me, yes our heart was beating

Oh you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
And you're my, me oh my, Delta Lady

Oh and I'm over here in England
But I think of you, (think about you,oh,think about you)
Because I love you,love

There are concrete mountains in the city
And pretty city women live inside them
And yet it seems the city scene is lacking you
I'm so glad you're waiting for me in the country

Oh,you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
Said, you're my, me oh my, Delta Lady
And you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
Yeah, you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
And you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kinda this?
Wouldn’t argue with an old wizard that plays songs like that!

but really, the other day I read an article about how Manhattan NY is the Least Likely place you will ever meet a bride to marry. So plan accordingly if your goal is to live in Poon Central.
 
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