"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is modern dating better in smaller cities?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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People with abnormal sexual orientations fare better in crowded cities than in rural communities where their aberrance would be noticed immediately.
Everyone who's willing to exploit the increase in opportunities fares better in urban areas
 

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Here’s an older tune about the differences
by Leon Russell (1942-2016)

Woman of the country now I've found you
Longing in your soft and fertile delta
And I whisper sighs to satisfy your longing
For the warmth and tender shelter of my body

Oh you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
Yes, you're my, me oh my, Delta Lady

Please don't ask how many times I found you
Standing wet and naked in the garden
And I think of days and diff'rent ways I held you
Held you closely to me, yes our heart was beating

Oh you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
And you're my, me oh my, Delta Lady

Oh and I'm over here in England
But I think of you, (think about you,oh,think about you)
Because I love you,love

There are concrete mountains in the city
And pretty city women live inside them
And yet it seems the city scene is lacking you
I'm so glad you're waiting for me in the country

Oh,you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
Said, you're my, me oh my, Delta Lady
And you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
Yeah, you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
And you're my, yes you're my Delta Lady
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kinda this?
Wouldn’t argue with an old wizard that plays songs like that!

but really, the other day I read an article about how Manhattan NY is the Least Likely place you will ever meet a bride to marry. So plan accordingly if your goal is to live in Poon Central.
 
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