"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is man who lives with girlfriend & nails her daughter @ age 18 a sexual predator?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I disagree.

He is not murdering people or actually doing any real harm.
It should be a sad and salutary story to people overly concerned with their sexual lives. Sexual gratification exists on a continuous spectrum. Most are somewhere in the middle of this spectrum due either to education or upbringing; sexual gratification is moderated by other civilizing influences. Take away those other influences [beware writing off all 'socialization' a la 'red-pill' ideology], and the danger is one can slide toward becoming a sociopath/ psychopath, where all that matters is the gratification of self irrespective of the harm you do to others. It seems barbarism is rearing its ugly head again.
 

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It should be a sad and salutary story to people overly concerned with their sexual lives. Sexual gratification exists on a continuous spectrum. Most are somewhere in the middle of this spectrum due either to education or upbringing; sexual gratification is moderated by other civilizing influences. Take away those other influences [beware writing off all 'socialization' a la 'red-pill' ideology], and the danger is one can slide toward becoming a sociopath/ psychopath, where all that matters is the gratification of self irrespective of the harm you do to others. It seems barbarism is rearing its ugly head again.
you know you pretty much explained how society works today right? and being a sociopath is how most people become succesfull nowadays
 

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It should be a sad and salutary story to people overly concerned with their sexual lives. Sexual gratification exists on a continuous spectrum. Most are somewhere in the middle of this spectrum due either to education or upbringing; sexual gratification is moderated by other civilizing influences. Take away those other influences [beware writing off all 'socialization' a la 'red-pill' ideology], and the danger is one can slide toward becoming a sociopath/ psychopath, where all that matters is the gratification of self irrespective of the harm you do to others. It seems barbarism is rearing its ugly head again.
Until someone gets raped there is no harm done. Therefore, no reason to call someone evil for having a sex drive (which he chose not to act on by the way).

Everyone wants to save a hoe these days.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you know you pretty much explained how society works today right? and being a sociopath is how most people become succesfull nowadays
'Society', in the abstract, is nothing more than the herd. Your task is to rise above it.
 

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'Society', in the abstract, is nothing more than the herd. Your task is to rise above it.
and what that have anything with I said? you can't control others and being in the herd or not does not change anything on how things work
 

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and what that have anything with I said? you can't control others and being in the herd or not does not change anything on how things work
You can influence others. And whether you are in the herd or not has everything to do with how you work. Everything else is ultimately illusory.
 

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I don't know much about the law. But how could this possibly hold up? If an 18 year old man dates a 17 and 11/12ths year old minor, and they discuss plans to fukk in one month when she's legal, that's a felony? That just doesn't make any sense to me.
Every state is different. Some states still allow close enough relatives to marry. You just have to check the law. In this case, YES where the fvck is their mother?! As well, he is an adult man whom s shaping these children so that they will spread their legs when they are 18. No grown man should be doing that, the adult simply knows better, and more, than the child. If the situation occurs between two people of about the same age, the maturity level is similar, and that is the difference.
 

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It's part of the modern "get tough on crime" trend toward sex crimes. Any time politicians want to get tough on anything, we end up with a bunch of ridiculous laws. The age of consent is 17 in my state, but the Federal age of consent to take naked pics is 18. So literally, I can fvck a 17 y/o; I just can't take any pics of it happening, or that would be a felony.

Grooming charges are often thrown at teachers who have inappropriate relations with students, but stop short of having sex with them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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