"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is man who lives with girlfriend & nails her daughter @ age 18 a sexual predator?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I disagree.

He is not murdering people or actually doing any real harm.
It should be a sad and salutary story to people overly concerned with their sexual lives. Sexual gratification exists on a continuous spectrum. Most are somewhere in the middle of this spectrum due either to education or upbringing; sexual gratification is moderated by other civilizing influences. Take away those other influences [beware writing off all 'socialization' a la 'red-pill' ideology], and the danger is one can slide toward becoming a sociopath/ psychopath, where all that matters is the gratification of self irrespective of the harm you do to others. It seems barbarism is rearing its ugly head again.
 

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It should be a sad and salutary story to people overly concerned with their sexual lives. Sexual gratification exists on a continuous spectrum. Most are somewhere in the middle of this spectrum due either to education or upbringing; sexual gratification is moderated by other civilizing influences. Take away those other influences [beware writing off all 'socialization' a la 'red-pill' ideology], and the danger is one can slide toward becoming a sociopath/ psychopath, where all that matters is the gratification of self irrespective of the harm you do to others. It seems barbarism is rearing its ugly head again.
you know you pretty much explained how society works today right? and being a sociopath is how most people become succesfull nowadays
 

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It should be a sad and salutary story to people overly concerned with their sexual lives. Sexual gratification exists on a continuous spectrum. Most are somewhere in the middle of this spectrum due either to education or upbringing; sexual gratification is moderated by other civilizing influences. Take away those other influences [beware writing off all 'socialization' a la 'red-pill' ideology], and the danger is one can slide toward becoming a sociopath/ psychopath, where all that matters is the gratification of self irrespective of the harm you do to others. It seems barbarism is rearing its ugly head again.
Until someone gets raped there is no harm done. Therefore, no reason to call someone evil for having a sex drive (which he chose not to act on by the way).

Everyone wants to save a hoe these days.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you know you pretty much explained how society works today right? and being a sociopath is how most people become succesfull nowadays
'Society', in the abstract, is nothing more than the herd. Your task is to rise above it.
 

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'Society', in the abstract, is nothing more than the herd. Your task is to rise above it.
and what that have anything with I said? you can't control others and being in the herd or not does not change anything on how things work
 

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and what that have anything with I said? you can't control others and being in the herd or not does not change anything on how things work
You can influence others. And whether you are in the herd or not has everything to do with how you work. Everything else is ultimately illusory.
 

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I don't know much about the law. But how could this possibly hold up? If an 18 year old man dates a 17 and 11/12ths year old minor, and they discuss plans to fukk in one month when she's legal, that's a felony? That just doesn't make any sense to me.
Every state is different. Some states still allow close enough relatives to marry. You just have to check the law. In this case, YES where the fvck is their mother?! As well, he is an adult man whom s shaping these children so that they will spread their legs when they are 18. No grown man should be doing that, the adult simply knows better, and more, than the child. If the situation occurs between two people of about the same age, the maturity level is similar, and that is the difference.
 

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It's part of the modern "get tough on crime" trend toward sex crimes. Any time politicians want to get tough on anything, we end up with a bunch of ridiculous laws. The age of consent is 17 in my state, but the Federal age of consent to take naked pics is 18. So literally, I can fvck a 17 y/o; I just can't take any pics of it happening, or that would be a felony.

Grooming charges are often thrown at teachers who have inappropriate relations with students, but stop short of having sex with them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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