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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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is joinning indian dance class good thing?

Canadien

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hello guys, I am currently studying in the university and I get lot of free time on the side so how about dance classes?

The place I'm interested in teaches indian fusion dance with hiphop and jazz dance? Is this a good option? Teacher said around 90% students are girls, so will I get swallowedup? My friend already freaked out when I told him about this, is it really that bad?

I really need to feel comfortable around girls and I see this as good in two ways 1) I can learn to dance 2) get to meet new people..

Is this bad idea?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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realsmoothie

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No, sounds great. What's wrong with it?

Unless it's a dance only girls do...!
 

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Do it.

I regret not having done alot of good things in college. Join the dance class, for one, girls love guys who can dance well.

If 90% of the class consists of women, you have a great place to also practice your game . . .
 

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yes, definately, go do it. I take part in Salsa some weekends and the amount of women you meet and dance with makes it all worth it, and the fact that the man has to lead, essentially be the 'alpha' male gives you good practise! if you have nothing better to do, worth a try, if you dont do it, you wont know!
 

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it turned out

I was the only guy joinning the dance team, I just watched today as it was their last class for this semester, around 8 girls are in the group, this is not like salsa its individual dance, and most of their boyfriend showedup as it was open house,
but I still got to talk with one indian girl, so do you guys think its worth it?


It costs $130 for 8 classes, 1 hour and 30 minute per class, I don't mind about the money but do you guys think it would still improve my conversation thing with girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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but doesn't

salsa, tango and other stuff require partner? if not I might try it out, but still how likely is it that they accept singles?
 

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Dance classes are usually a good idea. Females almost always outnumber men (often by a big margin), and you get to improve your talents, socialize, etc.

I'm surprised you can't find a better deal than that, tho. If you look on the internet, you can possibly find some local dance clubs/groups that offer free lessons. (At my college, it's possible for students to sign up for dance as a p.e. credit, which is free.)

Also, I'd probably recommend either salsa or swing dancing over that Indian stuff. But if you want to, go for it.
 

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yes, salsa requires a partner, as I said in a previous thread, you have to dance with a female ;o) so your be forced to practice your convo with women, I'm actually really enjoying it now, learning some goods moves, it makes you slightly different to the rest of the men out there, people seem shocked that I dance salsa lol

give it a try, it's good fun!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well guys after

Shezz said:
Are you interested in Indian dancing? Is it something that you would want to do???

Don't do it for the sake of girls being there, if its something that you don't want to do in your heart, don't. Do something that you love doing.

You can meet girls ANYWHERE.

Sarge On...

some thought I have decided to look elsewhere, I already have calender marked for next semester I'm joinning university salsa dance program I think there will be boys there along with girls offcourse, I'm also joinning Badminton club, maybe even learninng to skate, so ya creativity is growing and my desire to do something will be fullfilled once I'm done with my exams..

Its hard thinking about girls and exams at the same time, double stress and no gain!!


Thanks a lot for lot of positive posts...
 
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