"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it wrong to think of women in the context of Food?

FieldReportGuy7

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Is it? I'm a Man with a diverse taste with women. I just love women from all sorts of backgrounds and ethnicities.

The downside to this, I get bored just staying and being with one race of women. I need variety in my life.

Its like food you know. You just cant have hamburgers and fries all the damn time, you gotta have your egg rolls and sweet and sour soup, your tacos and enchiladas on Fridays and Fried chicken with coleslaw and macaroni and cheese on Sundays Man !!!

Lmao...............anyone here can relate?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you don't mind me asking, what ethnicity are you?
 

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You should try living in isolation for 5 months, like in a cabin in the dakotas or in the northwest territories. You'll start to appreciate the simpler things in life. It seems like your consumed with your own desires in other words it controls you.
 

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Strange thread =\
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alle_Gory

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EA Gold said:
You should try living in isolation for 5 months, like in a cabin in the dakotas or in the northwest territories. You'll start to appreciate the simpler things in life. It seems like your consumed with your own desires in other words it controls you.
Just like your beliefs control you. You're unable to have a conversation if it's not somehow related to God or the evils of being born a human being.
 

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Why not think about those issues right now when you have time.. You don't know what tommorrow holds. There is no guarantee that you or I have tommorow, next week or next year to play around with serious issues like our human nature and belief in God.

Today and right now is all you have, and could be the last.
 
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