"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it wrong to think of women in the context of Food?

FieldReportGuy7

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Is it? I'm a Man with a diverse taste with women. I just love women from all sorts of backgrounds and ethnicities.

The downside to this, I get bored just staying and being with one race of women. I need variety in my life.

Its like food you know. You just cant have hamburgers and fries all the damn time, you gotta have your egg rolls and sweet and sour soup, your tacos and enchiladas on Fridays and Fried chicken with coleslaw and macaroni and cheese on Sundays Man !!!

Lmao...............anyone here can relate?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you don't mind me asking, what ethnicity are you?
 

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You should try living in isolation for 5 months, like in a cabin in the dakotas or in the northwest territories. You'll start to appreciate the simpler things in life. It seems like your consumed with your own desires in other words it controls you.
 

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Strange thread =\
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EA Gold said:
You should try living in isolation for 5 months, like in a cabin in the dakotas or in the northwest territories. You'll start to appreciate the simpler things in life. It seems like your consumed with your own desires in other words it controls you.
Just like your beliefs control you. You're unable to have a conversation if it's not somehow related to God or the evils of being born a human being.
 

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Why not think about those issues right now when you have time.. You don't know what tommorrow holds. There is no guarantee that you or I have tommorow, next week or next year to play around with serious issues like our human nature and belief in God.

Today and right now is all you have, and could be the last.
 
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