"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is it wrong to think of women in the context of Food?

FieldReportGuy7

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Is it? I'm a Man with a diverse taste with women. I just love women from all sorts of backgrounds and ethnicities.

The downside to this, I get bored just staying and being with one race of women. I need variety in my life.

Its like food you know. You just cant have hamburgers and fries all the damn time, you gotta have your egg rolls and sweet and sour soup, your tacos and enchiladas on Fridays and Fried chicken with coleslaw and macaroni and cheese on Sundays Man !!!

Lmao...............anyone here can relate?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you don't mind me asking, what ethnicity are you?
 

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You should try living in isolation for 5 months, like in a cabin in the dakotas or in the northwest territories. You'll start to appreciate the simpler things in life. It seems like your consumed with your own desires in other words it controls you.
 

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Strange thread =\
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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EA Gold said:
You should try living in isolation for 5 months, like in a cabin in the dakotas or in the northwest territories. You'll start to appreciate the simpler things in life. It seems like your consumed with your own desires in other words it controls you.
Just like your beliefs control you. You're unable to have a conversation if it's not somehow related to God or the evils of being born a human being.
 

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Why not think about those issues right now when you have time.. You don't know what tommorrow holds. There is no guarantee that you or I have tommorow, next week or next year to play around with serious issues like our human nature and belief in God.

Today and right now is all you have, and could be the last.
 
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