"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it wrong if at the end of a date you ask if you can kiss her?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Asking" is not generally recommended with most things (including kissing) because it makes you sound insecure. However these rules are more like guidelines and can be flexible, meaning you need to just feel the situation a bit.

so yes, asking for a kiss is ok in some situations but you have to ask in the right way and with the right tone of voice..no pathetic mumbling.

Actually, asking for a kiss can often set you up for a great opportunity...(and I would recommend you only try this on very attractive women or women who constantly tease you)...when they say 'Yes'..you move in slightly as though you are moving in to kiss her...then suddenly pull away and say "That's good to know" - which adds to the anticipation (she thought she was gonna get a kiss) and also gives you all the power. If executed correctly the girl will then be DETERMINED to get a kiss from you and may even jump on you right there and then;)
 
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If you do ask her,

"can i kiss you"

She says yes
so you say

"ok ill bear that in mind"
then make her wait a bit.

I read this somewhere.
 
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Well, if you were to ask a girl if you can kiss her, i'd say the success rate is probably 5-10%. Are you willing to take that kind of rejection?

As others have said its best to just go in for a kiss close or ask "would you like to kiss me?"

Even if the girl is shy about it, she'll at least know you had the balls to do it.
 
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I was friends with this one cute girl who was telling me about a guy she liked who she was dating, and she told me about when he first tried to kiss her. "He actually asked if he could kiss me.....eww. We didn't kiss until later". I don't think I could ever ask a girl after hearing her say that. I think most girls feel that way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Knowing when you can kiss a chick is something you can only figure out with experience. Usually after you fail to do it, it hits you that you missed your chance, and hopefully you won't miss it the next time you get the "kiss me now" look from a girl. I blew this one a few times until i recognized the look.

Generally, the "kiss me now" look is characterized by a long pause in conversation along with some heavy eye contact (with dilated pupils, or as RJ puts it the "Doggy dinner bowl" look). You just gotta go for it, because most times if you don't, the girl is gonna think that you're either a chump (or gay) or that you don't find her attractive, both of which are really bad, and can kill whatever you have with the girl.

Be like nike and just DO IT.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by gunit630
I think i saw this in the DJ Bible but i cant find it
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Don't need to read any replies--simply put, don't ask, just do. If you ask, it seems awkward (learned that lesson the hard way). One thing I did do, that worked a couple of times: You say, as you are leaning in for the kiss, "I want to kiss you." But don't wait for a response, just keep going in for the kisss, and the times I've done that, it has been successful. This was before I even knew about this site, which is why there aren't details.
 
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