Is there something wrong with my psychology that a 30 something year old likes girls in their late teens? I don't feel or currently think there is anything wrong with my psychology but I want to see other people's input just to be completely sure.
For the record, for the last five years I do not watch or see any kind of pornography.
I think I'm conditioned to like young women because:
1.) They do look better
2.) I'm compensating for my poor performance when I was in high school and early 20's
3.) I've had really fun and good experiences when dating these young women
What I've heard so far for those who disagree with this as being a healthy psychology is that:
I should not do it because it does not adapt to social norms and that I should be a people pleaser
That the age gap means that the experiences are completely different and that there is a lack of grounds for a healthy relationship.
I think it's normal to want to bang hot 18 year olds until you are dead, tbh. (or as long as you have sufficient testosterone running though your veins. I think it's just biology. We desire attractive, fertile girls)
I also think that everyone thinks this deep down, but we live in a world now where it's not 'ok' too admit, and so most of us have to pretend that we're not attracted to the cute 17 year old cheerleader and that we wouldn't bang her if she was actually interested!
I'm now in my 30's and hooked up with a cute emo-ish 17 year old not too long ago lol.
I think it's natural, maybe instinctive. As long as your talking about feminine looking (not childish) late teen-agers, it does make sense. In my late teens I was honestly more interest on my friends mom's rather than the girls at my school, tho...
No, it's normal. I'm 34 years old. I find women 19-24 the most attractive, just like any healthy man should. It would be abnormal if I was more attracted to women my age.
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Men between ages 20-50 find women 20-24 most attractive. This doesn't mean anything in practice. Most men in their 30s-40s are pusssy beggars who end up taking whatever woman close to their own age that they can get. Most men in their 30s-40s don't have what it takes to attract and retain an 18-23 year old.
I think 20-22 simply objectively tend to be more attractive. Teens...yeah I'd say maybe thats off. Women mature a lot physically and mentally even from 18 to 20. Even when I was in college at 18 I thought 20yo were hotter.
I say 19-24 because while there are plenty of hot 18 year olds, many still look like kids, which obviously isn't attractive. Very few 19 year olds look like kids, and by the time you hit 20 they virtually all look like women.
I think 20-22 simply objectively tend to be more attractive. Teens...yeah I'd say maybe thats off. Women mature a lot physically and mentally even from 18 to 20. Even when I was in college at 18 I thought 20yo were hotter.
(16 is legal here without any age gaps laws). And we're talking about 18 which is legal like everywhere. So not pedophillia by any definition of the word?
We'd have to be agreeing that 7 year olds are hot for it to be pedophillia haha
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