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Is it worth to take a shot?

oneboy21

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I ran into a girl I talked to few times, just casual talking this time too.
Finally I said, we should catch up and a drink, and she said yes, I asked her what's your number, she said I will be busy in holidays and I ok, and suggested we should do it after holidays. I said I will send her an email.

Do you guys think it's worth of shot, should I email her today or sometime after a week or so.
I was thinking something like this.

Thu->4:30pm->@this place
What you guys think.
 

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oneboy21 said:
I ran into a girl I talked to few times, just casual talking this time too.
Finally I said, we should catch up and a drink, and she said yes, I asked her what's your number, she said I will be busy in holidays and I ok, and suggested we should do it after holidays. I said I will send her an email.

Do you guys think it's worth of shot, should I email her today or sometime after a week or so.
I was thinking something like this.

Thu->4:30pm->@this place
What you guys think.
Everything is worth a shot as long as it's not going to hurt you or cost you any money.

Although I think your email idea is trying too hard to sound "cool" and "mysterious"

Just say "Hey, it was cool catching up with you. I was thinking about going to (blank). You should come."

She doesn't sound like she has high IL, so whatever. But might as well try, if it'll make you happy.
 
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If it was worth it for you to write this thread, it's worth it for you to type of a 10 second email asking her for an alternate date.

What's the worst that could happen? Your inbox remain 1 email emptier?
 
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