"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it worth to take a shot?

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oneboy21

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I ran into a girl I talked to few times, just casual talking this time too.
Finally I said, we should catch up and a drink, and she said yes, I asked her what's your number, she said I will be busy in holidays and I ok, and suggested we should do it after holidays. I said I will send her an email.

Do you guys think it's worth of shot, should I email her today or sometime after a week or so.
I was thinking something like this.

Thu->4:30pm->@this place
What you guys think.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oneboy21 said:
I ran into a girl I talked to few times, just casual talking this time too.
Finally I said, we should catch up and a drink, and she said yes, I asked her what's your number, she said I will be busy in holidays and I ok, and suggested we should do it after holidays. I said I will send her an email.

Do you guys think it's worth of shot, should I email her today or sometime after a week or so.
I was thinking something like this.

Thu->4:30pm->@this place
What you guys think.
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Everything is worth a shot as long as it's not going to hurt you or cost you any money.

Although I think your email idea is trying too hard to sound "cool" and "mysterious"

Just say "Hey, it was cool catching up with you. I was thinking about going to (blank). You should come."

She doesn't sound like she has high IL, so whatever. But might as well try, if it'll make you happy.
 
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If it was worth it for you to write this thread, it's worth it for you to type of a 10 second email asking her for an alternate date.

What's the worst that could happen? Your inbox remain 1 email emptier?
 
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