"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is it worth to take a shot?

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oneboy21

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I ran into a girl I talked to few times, just casual talking this time too.
Finally I said, we should catch up and a drink, and she said yes, I asked her what's your number, she said I will be busy in holidays and I ok, and suggested we should do it after holidays. I said I will send her an email.

Do you guys think it's worth of shot, should I email her today or sometime after a week or so.
I was thinking something like this.

Thu->4:30pm->@this place
What you guys think.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oneboy21 said:
I ran into a girl I talked to few times, just casual talking this time too.
Finally I said, we should catch up and a drink, and she said yes, I asked her what's your number, she said I will be busy in holidays and I ok, and suggested we should do it after holidays. I said I will send her an email.

Do you guys think it's worth of shot, should I email her today or sometime after a week or so.
I was thinking something like this.

Thu->4:30pm->@this place
What you guys think.
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Everything is worth a shot as long as it's not going to hurt you or cost you any money.

Although I think your email idea is trying too hard to sound "cool" and "mysterious"

Just say "Hey, it was cool catching up with you. I was thinking about going to (blank). You should come."

She doesn't sound like she has high IL, so whatever. But might as well try, if it'll make you happy.
 
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Rubato

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If it was worth it for you to write this thread, it's worth it for you to type of a 10 second email asking her for an alternate date.

What's the worst that could happen? Your inbox remain 1 email emptier?
 
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