"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it worth my time?

Onlyliveonce

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Work with a 28 year old woman Im 42. She gives me signs of interest and backs off, classic hot and cold. She has a boyfriend she is obviously bored with. I have asked her out once, she backed out. I proceeded to blow her off for two weeks. She initiates a conversation telling me she is quitting work and finding another job, giving me her number.
I feel like telling her lets fvck and drop the boyfriend. It's tough because of it being work however, don't need any sexual harassment claims against me, LOL. I'm not too wrapped up in her. There are other women just as good looking and I make sure she sees me with them.
My mindset is to just ignore and be polite but I feel I am not playing this right and could be passing up some great sex. Any recommendations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ChumpNoMore

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It's your workplace. Don't sh!t where you eat, like you said plenty more options out there - go get 'em!
 

jophil28

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I would say this, "When you get another job give me a call, BUT know that I do not see women who are sleeping with their boyfriends. No triangles for me ".
 
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