"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is it worth my time...

Bjj_playa

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i met a *****....we chilled twice so far, were gona set up another *date* for this week. i just found out though that she recently broke up with a guy a few weeks ago and she said they are on a *break*....from my experiences when seeing my friends in this situation...the girl usualy dumps the new guy and goes back to the ex in like 2 weeks. so this information makes me wonder if i should bother with this chick. also, she added me to facebook and there is a pic of her and her ex on there from semi or w.e.....i just dont want to end up where ive seen my friends end up...being dumped for the ex. tell me what you guys think about this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sexy_kuta

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i say fuk it, if u dont wanna invest in too much time

if u do, u can take her on a emotional rollercoaster, and seduce her, its possible but honeslty its not worth the headache
 

PleasureKing

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yea i dont think its worth the headache. plus, its really easy for the ex to get back with her. trust me, i have done it before with other girls. ;]
 

itishe

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Don't do it. Exs can easily get back with the chick.
 

The Shocker

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Break means she wants to experience some **** outside of her boyfriend. Meaning you're primed and ready to go.

Warning: Don't take it seriously, you don't want a relationship with this girl, otherwise you're the one she's going to be taking breaks from.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bjj_playa

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k well she asked me to the movies for this tuesday....im gona go in for the kiss and just play it out form there....i need the experience anyway
 
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