"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bjj_playa

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i met a *****....we chilled twice so far, were gona set up another *date* for this week. i just found out though that she recently broke up with a guy a few weeks ago and she said they are on a *break*....from my experiences when seeing my friends in this situation...the girl usualy dumps the new guy and goes back to the ex in like 2 weeks. so this information makes me wonder if i should bother with this chick. also, she added me to facebook and there is a pic of her and her ex on there from semi or w.e.....i just dont want to end up where ive seen my friends end up...being dumped for the ex. tell me what you guys think about this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexy_kuta

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i say fuk it, if u dont wanna invest in too much time

if u do, u can take her on a emotional rollercoaster, and seduce her, its possible but honeslty its not worth the headache
 

PleasureKing

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yea i dont think its worth the headache. plus, its really easy for the ex to get back with her. trust me, i have done it before with other girls. ;]
 

itishe

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Don't do it. Exs can easily get back with the chick.
 

The Shocker

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Break means she wants to experience some **** outside of her boyfriend. Meaning you're primed and ready to go.

Warning: Don't take it seriously, you don't want a relationship with this girl, otherwise you're the one she's going to be taking breaks from.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bjj_playa

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k well she asked me to the movies for this tuesday....im gona go in for the kiss and just play it out form there....i need the experience anyway
 
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