i found out that cold approaches hardly work on college campuses, but still, does eye contact while walking by mean ok-go? i have no fear of approaching at all, just fear of losing social status by cold approaching too often. does anyone here had success with direct, cold approaches on college campuses? so far, i'm 0/4.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
is it worth it to approach a hot girl who stares at you while walking by on campus?
- Thread starter cguy2004
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
its definitely possible. The more you do it, the better you get at it.
The better you get at it, the more success you have.
The more success you have, the more options you have.
The more options you have, the tighter your game gets with each of these options.
The tighter your game gets, the more girls want to bang you / see you as sexworthy and someone they would hook up with.
The more you cold approach....your c0ck will thank you later.
The better you get at it, the more success you have.
The more success you have, the more options you have.
The more options you have, the tighter your game gets with each of these options.
The tighter your game gets, the more girls want to bang you / see you as sexworthy and someone they would hook up with.
The more you cold approach....your c0ck will thank you later.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
eye contact and a smile once you look at her gives you green light, yet you need good game to capitalize on that... he he been there myself.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
cguy2004 said:
Than check if your zipper is open.
Really hot chick might not smile, nor check you out or give you eye-contact.... less hotter ones will and may even flirt. Go for the ones that give you a really strong vibe. You will know which ones after awhile.
Half of them might be genuinely wondering why this guy is staring at them , thus eye-contact.
Generally, if they cant smile - they can go fuk themselves. My own philosophy.
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user43770
Guest
From my experience, college chicks enjoy sh1t testing guys - they love the power they have over men. If I look over and they're blatantly staring - basically begging for me to prove that I'm worthy - then I call their bluff.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Dude. If you're thinking about going for it, then that's enough to go for it.cguy2004 said:
You can't sit here analyzing a bunch of stupid signs. Maybe the girl who likes you isn't looking at you at all. Maybe she's looking at you but not smiling. Maybe she's smiling but not looking at you. Just grow up and do something.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
Then you have a fear of approaching.cguy2004 said:
You only got one life bud, better make the most of it. No regrets, take every opportunity.
Darth_Qurashi
Don Juan
yea man of course it's worth it. almost all the hot girls i see in my school are the ones that walk past me.
u gotta be daring. call them out. "hey, are you checking me out?"
or say something like "I like ur hair/scarf", "Is that a blackberry?" that was a good one, cuz im actually interested in buying one and needed ppls opinions on which version to get so it was a win/win
depends on the situation though. if they're just looking at you, just look back at them and smile, as if ur happy to notice they were staring at you. if they wer really looking at you, they have to smile back it's like this natural reflex and works almost all the time. then just playfuly be like "hello....." sometimes they weren't really looking at you, then just brush it off, ain't no thang. don't worry about social status, or getting rejected. only losers who are afraid of doing it would laugh at you. a real man would respect you for your efforts.
u gotta be daring. call them out. "hey, are you checking me out?"
or say something like "I like ur hair/scarf", "Is that a blackberry?" that was a good one, cuz im actually interested in buying one and needed ppls opinions on which version to get so it was a win/win
depends on the situation though. if they're just looking at you, just look back at them and smile, as if ur happy to notice they were staring at you. if they wer really looking at you, they have to smile back it's like this natural reflex and works almost all the time. then just playfuly be like "hello....." sometimes they weren't really looking at you, then just brush it off, ain't no thang. don't worry about social status, or getting rejected. only losers who are afraid of doing it would laugh at you. a real man would respect you for your efforts.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
...unless you are a douche - then no respect.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
regardless of whether or not she's giving you eye contact or whether she's walking or not...if you want to approach her just do it. Fvck all the signals. I've pulled successful approaches on girls who look mean and grumpy. It's chaos theory dude. non of it matters. its all a numbers game. just keep trying
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
forget the whole "cold approach" crap - you see a girl that you think it cute in your college campus thats giving you some eye contact, a simple - "hey whats.. i've seen you around a few times, i dont think we met, im Mike"
don't over complicate things
don't over complicate things