i found out that cold approaches hardly work on college campuses, but still, does eye contact while walking by mean ok-go? i have no fear of approaching at all, just fear of losing social status by cold approaching too often. does anyone here had success with direct, cold approaches on college campuses? so far, i'm 0/4.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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is it worth it to approach a hot girl who stares at you while walking by on campus?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
its definitely possible. The more you do it, the better you get at it.
The better you get at it, the more success you have.
The more success you have, the more options you have.
The more options you have, the tighter your game gets with each of these options.
The tighter your game gets, the more girls want to bang you / see you as sexworthy and someone they would hook up with.
The more you cold approach....your c0ck will thank you later.
The better you get at it, the more success you have.
The more success you have, the more options you have.
The more options you have, the tighter your game gets with each of these options.
The tighter your game gets, the more girls want to bang you / see you as sexworthy and someone they would hook up with.
The more you cold approach....your c0ck will thank you later.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
eye contact and a smile once you look at her gives you green light, yet you need good game to capitalize on that... he he been there myself.
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PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
cguy2004 said:
Than check if your zipper is open.
Really hot chick might not smile, nor check you out or give you eye-contact.... less hotter ones will and may even flirt. Go for the ones that give you a really strong vibe. You will know which ones after awhile.
Half of them might be genuinely wondering why this guy is staring at them , thus eye-contact.
Generally, if they cant smile - they can go fuk themselves. My own philosophy.
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user43770
Guest
From my experience, college chicks enjoy sh1t testing guys - they love the power they have over men. If I look over and they're blatantly staring - basically begging for me to prove that I'm worthy - then I call their bluff.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Dude. If you're thinking about going for it, then that's enough to go for it.cguy2004 said:
You can't sit here analyzing a bunch of stupid signs. Maybe the girl who likes you isn't looking at you at all. Maybe she's looking at you but not smiling. Maybe she's smiling but not looking at you. Just grow up and do something.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lucifero
Senior Don Juan
Then you have a fear of approaching.cguy2004 said:
You only got one life bud, better make the most of it. No regrets, take every opportunity.
Darth_Qurashi
Don Juan
yea man of course it's worth it. almost all the hot girls i see in my school are the ones that walk past me.
u gotta be daring. call them out. "hey, are you checking me out?"
or say something like "I like ur hair/scarf", "Is that a blackberry?" that was a good one, cuz im actually interested in buying one and needed ppls opinions on which version to get so it was a win/win
depends on the situation though. if they're just looking at you, just look back at them and smile, as if ur happy to notice they were staring at you. if they wer really looking at you, they have to smile back it's like this natural reflex and works almost all the time. then just playfuly be like "hello....." sometimes they weren't really looking at you, then just brush it off, ain't no thang. don't worry about social status, or getting rejected. only losers who are afraid of doing it would laugh at you. a real man would respect you for your efforts.
u gotta be daring. call them out. "hey, are you checking me out?"
or say something like "I like ur hair/scarf", "Is that a blackberry?" that was a good one, cuz im actually interested in buying one and needed ppls opinions on which version to get so it was a win/win
depends on the situation though. if they're just looking at you, just look back at them and smile, as if ur happy to notice they were staring at you. if they wer really looking at you, they have to smile back it's like this natural reflex and works almost all the time. then just playfuly be like "hello....." sometimes they weren't really looking at you, then just brush it off, ain't no thang. don't worry about social status, or getting rejected. only losers who are afraid of doing it would laugh at you. a real man would respect you for your efforts.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
...unless you are a douche - then no respect.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
regardless of whether or not she's giving you eye contact or whether she's walking or not...if you want to approach her just do it. Fvck all the signals. I've pulled successful approaches on girls who look mean and grumpy. It's chaos theory dude. non of it matters. its all a numbers game. just keep trying
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
forget the whole "cold approach" crap - you see a girl that you think it cute in your college campus thats giving you some eye contact, a simple - "hey whats.. i've seen you around a few times, i dont think we met, im Mike"
don't over complicate things
don't over complicate things