"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it worth it? The Game

Stéphane

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The better I get with women, the more I notice how meaningless it becomes. Sure, I know exactly what to do, I've got all the right tools, but for what? Sex? What is the point of sex anyways, why does it make us happy? I'm almost done reading the game, and I don't even know if the avantages are worth it anymore. That book really started to open my eyes. Sure they get laid a lot, but I really didn't expect my life to be like that.

I just wanted a emotional healthy woman, that doesn't play games. The better I get with women, the more I notice that having a normal relationship is impossible. Girls will either end up cheatting with you, or run all over you, unless you keep playing the game.

I beleive there still some good people in this world, but it looks like the ugly people overshadow us.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aliasguy

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Welcome to the real world, dude.
 

Stéphane

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I sometimes wish I never knew the truth, but the better I get with girls, the more I notice these things, and The Game just confirmed it.
 

Snow Plowman

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Been saying this to the break of dawn...This doesn't make you more or less happier.

Most guys just want a gf which to me if thats the case then there wasting there time here because why spend some much effort just wanting to get a gf.

What you do get out of this though is a new FUN hobby. You also improve as a person, your social skills and your overall life. Why? Because this is suppose to be blended into your lifestyle. Being able to have choice and options with the girls you want instead of relying on luck.

For me it means I would be able to go anywhere, anytime and meet a nice chick. I like to travel so this can help me meet hot women around the world. It can allow me to meet hot chefs who can cook 5 star meals. It can allow me to go to fashion shows and meet models and fashion designers. It can allow me to meet chicks who frequently travels around the world. It means I can meet the local celebs in my city. It means I can meet the hot chick walking down the street.

I'm not learning this to get a gf nor JUST to have sex. I want to be able to attract women in general that way they can complement my lifestyle. So if I go to france I know I have some french women that I used to talk to the first time I went. If I'm traveling back and forth for work a lot then I know I have women in NY, and FL. If I want to go sky dive, I know I can call up one of my girls and have her tag along with me. If I'm out with the boys I know I can shoot a mass text to all my girls and have them meet up.

Guys need to really know why they are learning this. Honestly if your just here to get sex or a gf then your wasting your time, or mater of fact you can just do this as a recreation and get a few successes here and there. If you want sex...go buy a damn hooker then, better to spend 20 dollars than spend 20 hours a week on a seduction forum when all your really here for is sex.

I'm about to turn 19, I'm going to be doing this for the rest of my life so it surely is worth it. I never planned on ever getting married even before I got into all this, heck my plan before all this was to be a pawn for the army in the special forces, doing whatever was needed from me.

Like I told a guy today just the overall fun of meeting women is what makes it worth it in itself. The unpredictability of not knowing how the interaction will turn out. The vibe of the interaction, the sexual tension, the laughter, the subtle communication, the escalation, the expressions, etc. Overall knowing that YOU are the one who is causing certain things in the world to happen, whether the chick gets mad at you or is sucking your dik your the cause of it.

Each day you go out and interact with someone you NEVER know what is going to happen why do you think you have guys writing out long ass lay reports about getting a double handjob on the dancefloor, 5 way orgies, fuking married chicks, etc...because they didn't know that was going to happen it just happened.

This is why it's fun...it's not just about the sex or having a gf, its knowing that YOU are giving women what 99% of the other men can't give them...A Monumental Experience.
 

War Against Betaism

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If you got into The Game just to get laid or get a girlfriend then you're going to be greatly disappointed. You have to aim higher. I've improved my overall social skills and have gained a lot more friends because I got into the game. I haven't only gotten laid, but I've made relationships and have built a network across my area.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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War Against Betaism said:
If you got into The Game just to get laid or get a girlfriend then you're going to be greatly disappointed. You have to aim higher. I've improved my overall social skills and have gained a lot more friends because I got into the game. I haven't only gotten laid, but I've made relationships and have built a network across my area.
I agree with this. When, I first started learning all of this it was just for the pvssy. Then, I realized I need to do this for me. Not for pvssy. Then, I said i'm gonna find a girl that suits me and who i can be happy to share my life with. I got the girl I wanted and can't be happier with who I am with. It is all what you make this out to be.
 
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