Been saying this to the break of dawn...This doesn't make you more or less happier.
Most guys just want a gf which to me if thats the case then there wasting there time here because why spend some much effort just wanting to get a gf.
What you do get out of this though is a new FUN hobby. You also improve as a person, your social skills and your overall life. Why? Because this is suppose to be blended into your lifestyle. Being able to have choice and options with the girls you want instead of relying on luck.
For me it means I would be able to go anywhere, anytime and meet a nice chick. I like to travel so this can help me meet hot women around the world. It can allow me to meet hot chefs who can cook 5 star meals. It can allow me to go to fashion shows and meet models and fashion designers. It can allow me to meet chicks who frequently travels around the world. It means I can meet the local celebs in my city. It means I can meet the hot chick walking down the street.
I'm not learning this to get a gf nor JUST to have sex. I want to be able to attract women in general that way they can complement my lifestyle. So if I go to france I know I have some french women that I used to talk to the first time I went. If I'm traveling back and forth for work a lot then I know I have women in NY, and FL. If I want to go sky dive, I know I can call up one of my girls and have her tag along with me. If I'm out with the boys I know I can shoot a mass text to all my girls and have them meet up.
Guys need to really know why they are learning this. Honestly if your just here to get sex or a gf then your wasting your time, or mater of fact you can just do this as a recreation and get a few successes here and there. If you want sex...go buy a damn hooker then, better to spend 20 dollars than spend 20 hours a week on a seduction forum when all your really here for is sex.
I'm about to turn 19, I'm going to be doing this for the rest of my life so it surely is worth it. I never planned on ever getting married even before I got into all this, heck my plan before all this was to be a pawn for the army in the special forces, doing whatever was needed from me.
Like I told a guy today just the overall fun of meeting women is what makes it worth it in itself. The unpredictability of not knowing how the interaction will turn out. The vibe of the interaction, the sexual tension, the laughter, the subtle communication, the escalation, the expressions, etc. Overall knowing that YOU are the one who is causing certain things in the world to happen, whether the chick gets mad at you or is sucking your dik your the cause of it.
Each day you go out and interact with someone you NEVER know what is going to happen why do you think you have guys writing out long ass lay reports about getting a double handjob on the dancefloor, 5 way orgies, fuking married chicks, etc...because they didn't know that was going to happen it just happened.
This is why it's fun...it's not just about the sex or having a gf, its knowing that YOU are giving women what 99% of the other men can't give them...A Monumental Experience.