"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it worth dating a very attractive woman?

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Even hot girls get boring or tiresome. It just takes longer than unattractive girls. The most attractive girl is the one you haven’t yet slept with or spent lots of time with.
All girls have issues; it’s just that attractive girls get more of a leave pass.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its worth it if you got the recourses. Though you better pass all her sh1t tests or she’ll pass you.
 

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Don't fear the congruence tests.
If you don't pass them, you're not authentic, and you need to strife towards authenticity and integrity.
If you're authentic and moving from integrity, you won't 'fail' any test.
You can make mistakes if she makes you jealous for example.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Men have emotional self control.
Jealousy is infantile behaviour.
I don’t become jealous anymore, I know game too well and I know women behavior to know how to deal with that kind of situations and why she does it so I stand above that. I just give an example
 

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This question makes me think about why there are women who maintain relationships with men who obviously have no options. These men do not pursue social circles or other relationships with people; they just focus on family.

This is something we discuss frequently, as a high-value man has options (mainly because he shows them, allowing him to apply dread).

I wonder if it could be related to societal and traditional pressures that keep these women in their relationships.

This is also true for attractive women, not just unattractive ones.
 

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I get rejected on a regular basis, when it happens it's because I'm just not her type, she is in a relationship or for whatever reasons I can't control, but I never get sh1t tests.

@AmsterdamAssassin is right, you get sh1t tests when you're phony or when you try to impress.
Then you obviously never dealt with a very pretty woman. Beautiful dimes **** test all the time to weed out the phony’s like you say
 

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Sure. Just know that she is never yours. In my dating experience... the hotter the chick, the worst she is in bed.
There is some truth in this,sometimes,when they are smokin hot,they think that they are so great they can just lie there and you should be happy,nay! grateful,just to have merely climbed on her
 
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