"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it worth dating a fat chick and slimming her down?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:
One of Aaron Clarey’s suggestions was to “pick a diamond in the rough”, and polish it. By this he meant to go for a woman that has been overlooked because she was fat. Aaron Clarey then went into hard-core mental masturbation mode, talking about how you could slim her down and shape her, pun intended.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She has to do all of that on her own.
 

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Y'all crack me up
Hell no
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I like Aaron Clarey, but this is a losing proposition.
She will probably get fatter instead of losing weight
 

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She will look better when she slims down, and when she does, her hypergamous nature will have her seek out superior men.
^This.

My kids moms sister used to be really fat and she lived with her bf. She joined a gym and hired a personal trainer. Once she lost a bunch of weight, guys started giving her attention. She ended up cheating on her bf and left him for another guy.
 

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^This.

My kids moms sister used to be really fat and she lived with her bf. She joined a gym and hired a personal trainer. Once she lost a bunch of weight, guys started giving her attention. She ended up cheating on her bf and left him for another guy.
He was always a placeholder. A medication for her own neuroticism, which is a large but overlooked part of why women get with men and do what they do. When his use to her became obsolete, she got rid of him.
 
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