Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it weird I didnt start masturbating until I was 18

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Telling random men is not going to help your situation.
 
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SamTheHobit said:
Telling random men is not going to help your situation.
Its not a situation but to me if so it explains a lot off things?!?!

Why i look so young

Why Im socially inept

I believe I have aspergers and maybe this is correlated with a lot of this stuff.

I ask to see if this is true most you start at 13-15? ANd 18 is very late?
 

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It's easy to blame your problems on a syndrom, I once I thaught I was bipolar. Beleive in yourself, and you will go far.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're fine, dude. Don't make a big deal out of it.
 

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Starting at 18? That is very late.

I think I started at 5 or something because I remember doing it in preschool. I've always been really horny.
 
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Maxtro said:
Starting at 18? That is very late.

I think I started at 5 or something because I remember doing it in preschool. I've always been really horny.

Its funny though at age of 12/13 I recall getting boners to grils in school and watching some porn....but I was scared to touch my penis lol
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
Its not a situation but to me if so it explains a lot off things?!?!

Why i look so young

Why Im socially inept

I believe I have aspergers and maybe this is correlated with a lot of this stuff.

I ask to see if this is true most you start at 13-15? ANd 18 is very late?
It's weird that you repeatedly ask stupid questions on this board.

Don't you have a cat to talk to?
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
Its funny though at age of 12/13 I recall getting boners to grils in school and watching some porn....but I was scared to touch my penis lol
Any chance your parents told you it was wrong?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maxtro said:
Any chance your parents told you it was wrong?
no. I was kinda left to myself as a kid, never really talk at all especially that kind off thing.

we got sex ed class when I was like 11 and other dudes would say stuff..I even went wiht my friend one night to his gf when I was like 13/14 and he had sex with her in the other room and was like ha I *** on the bedsheets and she got to wash them before her mum gets back.

I dunno what was wrong with me lol. I just never thought about doing it. Even though I was a perv such as I used to spy on my cousin in the shower when 13/14 also and I remeber getting hard but not touching it. I used to watch playboy freeview at 12-12.10am most nights when 15+ and the lingerie section in catalouge. I could feel getting arouse but I never thought about touching it.

Its weird when I think back
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
no. I was kinda left to myself as a kid, never really talk at all especially that kind off thing.

we got sex ed class when I was like 11 and other dudes would say stuff..I even went wiht my friend one night to his gf when I was like 13/14 and he had sex with her in the other room and was like ha I *** on the bedsheets and she got to wash them before her mum gets back.

I dunno what was wrong with me lol. I just never thought about doing it. Even though I was a perv such as I used to spy on my cousin in the shower when 13/14 also and I remeber getting hard but not touching it. I used to watch playboy freeview at 12-12.10am most nights when 15+ and the lingerie section in catalouge. I could feel getting arouse but I never thought about touching it.

Its weird when I think back
maybe you just weren't resourceful enough to figure it out.
 

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
no. I was kinda left to myself as a kid, never really talk at all especially that kind off thing.

we got sex ed class when I was like 11 and other dudes would say stuff..I even went wiht my friend one night to his gf when I was like 13/14 and he had sex with her in the other room and was like ha I *** on the bedsheets and she got to wash them before her mum gets back.

I dunno what was wrong with me lol. I just never thought about doing it. Even though I was a perv such as I used to spy on my cousin in the shower when 13/14 also and I remeber getting hard but not touching it. I used to watch playboy freeview at 12-12.10am most nights when 15+ and the lingerie section in catalouge. I could feel getting arouse but I never thought about touching it.

Its weird when I think back
I was afraid to look at or touch my cum until I was like 17-18. After I got over that, I became a master baiter. :p

You're fine. There's nothing wrong with you. Now go live your life and stop hanging around here so much.

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Gray The Prince said:
I was afraid to look at or touch my cum until I was like 17-18. After I got over that, I became a master baiter. :p

You're fine. There's nothing wrong with you. Now go live your life and stop hanging around here so much.

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oh yeh after the 1st time I keot doing it like 3-5x per day 7 day per week non stop lol.

I just reminicsing how weird it was when I think back...
 
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