"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it True?

Lost

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I read this from the teenbodybuilding forum off of bodybuilding.com site


"Also, don't go thinking that to make your muscles get bigger, you need to train to failure and go balls to the wall every workout. Stay about 1-2 reps shy of failure, and you won't overtrain."


Is that sentence/paragraph true?


Ive always gone to failure and im now wonderin if that was my problem why i neer grew in the past lol(when i used to bodybuild)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nocturnal

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yes.

1) it's better to undertrain than overtrain
2) you don't need to feel sore to make gains, if you train to failure you will most likely feel sore
3) if you're doing a correct workout you should not go into the gym with sore muscles that are supposed to be worked out again
 

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There is some truth in this. If you can continually gain just shy of failure then wonderful. It also depends on where you are in a cycle and how new you are to WT.

Generally though you will get to a point where failure is the way you adapt to get bigger and stronger.

This is the point in your training were the poundages have never been before, keep on adding a bit of weight, add less and less each week and give yourself more rest. This will help extend the cycle.
 
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