"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it True?

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I read this from the teenbodybuilding forum off of bodybuilding.com site


"Also, don't go thinking that to make your muscles get bigger, you need to train to failure and go balls to the wall every workout. Stay about 1-2 reps shy of failure, and you won't overtrain."


Is that sentence/paragraph true?


Ive always gone to failure and im now wonderin if that was my problem why i neer grew in the past lol(when i used to bodybuild)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yes.

1) it's better to undertrain than overtrain
2) you don't need to feel sore to make gains, if you train to failure you will most likely feel sore
3) if you're doing a correct workout you should not go into the gym with sore muscles that are supposed to be worked out again
 

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There is some truth in this. If you can continually gain just shy of failure then wonderful. It also depends on where you are in a cycle and how new you are to WT.

Generally though you will get to a point where failure is the way you adapt to get bigger and stronger.

This is the point in your training were the poundages have never been before, keep on adding a bit of weight, add less and less each week and give yourself more rest. This will help extend the cycle.
 
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