"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it True?

Lost

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I read this from the teenbodybuilding forum off of bodybuilding.com site


"Also, don't go thinking that to make your muscles get bigger, you need to train to failure and go balls to the wall every workout. Stay about 1-2 reps shy of failure, and you won't overtrain."


Is that sentence/paragraph true?


Ive always gone to failure and im now wonderin if that was my problem why i neer grew in the past lol(when i used to bodybuild)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nocturnal

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yes.

1) it's better to undertrain than overtrain
2) you don't need to feel sore to make gains, if you train to failure you will most likely feel sore
3) if you're doing a correct workout you should not go into the gym with sore muscles that are supposed to be worked out again
 

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There is some truth in this. If you can continually gain just shy of failure then wonderful. It also depends on where you are in a cycle and how new you are to WT.

Generally though you will get to a point where failure is the way you adapt to get bigger and stronger.

This is the point in your training were the poundages have never been before, keep on adding a bit of weight, add less and less each week and give yourself more rest. This will help extend the cycle.
 
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