I have a friend who a lot of ppl say I'm better looking than and I've heard it enough that I should believe it by now. Ppl close to me I tell them all the time. That if they didn't know what I looked like, and heard me describe myself. They would think I was the ugliest person in the world. Now I know I'm not. I feel like I'm decent. I have ppl tell me I look like Ryan gosling pretty often. (I work as a salesman btw) But back to the point my friend has that confidence and that way to talk to girls. I feel like in all honest I'm not a bad lookin dude. But my confidence and self esteem are so bad that I just can't do anything not even approach. So what can or should I do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is it true?
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