I have a friend who a lot of ppl say I'm better looking than and I've heard it enough that I should believe it by now. Ppl close to me I tell them all the time. That if they didn't know what I looked like, and heard me describe myself. They would think I was the ugliest person in the world. Now I know I'm not. I feel like I'm decent. I have ppl tell me I look like Ryan gosling pretty often. (I work as a salesman btw) But back to the point my friend has that confidence and that way to talk to girls. I feel like in all honest I'm not a bad lookin dude. But my confidence and self esteem are so bad that I just can't do anything not even approach. So what can or should I do?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is it true?
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