Is it true?

[Dynasty32]

I have a friend who a lot of ppl say I'm better looking than and I've heard it enough that I should believe it by now. Ppl close to me I tell them all the time. That if they didn't know what I looked like, and heard me describe myself. They would think I was the ugliest person in the world. Now I know I'm not. I feel like I'm decent. I have ppl tell me I look like Ryan gosling pretty often. (I work as a salesman btw) But back to the point my friend has that confidence and that way to talk to girls. I feel like in all honest I'm not a bad lookin dude. But my confidence and self esteem are so bad that I just can't do anything not even approach. So what can or should I do?

 

[SKOL Vikings]

I can relate. This is the exact same issue I have. I'm a good looking guy and completely normal. But my confidence isn't there. It's better than it use to be, but it's not where it needs to be yet.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I have a friend who a lot of ppl say I'm better looking than and I've heard it enough that I should believe it by now. Ppl close to me I tell them all the time. That if they didn't know what I looked like, and heard me describe myself. They would think I was the ugliest person in the world. Now I know I'm not. I feel like I'm decent. I have ppl tell me I look like Ryan gosling pretty often. (I work as a salesman btw) But back to the point my friend has that confidence and that way to talk to girls. I feel like in all honest I'm not a bad lookin dude. But my confidence and self esteem are so bad that I just can't do anything not even approach. So what can or should I do?

Some guys look very good and will get shot down by women. Sometimes it's because the woman feels inferior. Other times, it will be because you don't have a lot of support in her circles. There are other reasons too.

But "good looking" doesn't always help. If you do become one of the "hot guys" in a circle though, they will come looking for you.