Is it true that every DJs have passion?

[moneyisking]

Until the last post, I didn't understand that passion was very important thing to DJ, but now I do understand, thanks to advices of fellow DJs.

I, however, always wonder if it's true that all DJs have passion.

Since I am in college, I see some immature, dumba$$, idiot, jerks who still

get puss*y pretty easy, and all they really do is party hard and smoke weed.

I want to finally be able to pull off smooth with woman but it's always the

dam sick feeling in the guts I get when I talk to women make me unable to

achieve that; then again, I realized I had no passion in my life, something I

really wanted and loved to do except women. I found it and working on it,

but anyways, is it true that all true DJs have passion? Also, to those of

real players who read this post, do you not feel a single bit of weirdness,

awkwardness, nervousness inside of you when you game that hot girl?

Honestly, if I could feel like I'm talking to my dude friend when I am talking

to any girl, I bet I can get girls so easy.

 

[Galactus]

I'll give you my answer, just because you really seem to need one.

No, not all DJs have passion. Of course, that depends on what you mean by "DJ". If you mean someone who posts on this forum, then no, definitely not. If you mean a guy who gets laid a lot, again, I'd say no. Some guys just grew up with that ability.

I think passion comes from dedicating yourself to constantly refining what you know already, to becoming consistently better at it. I am a lifelong artist. I know how to draw a picture. But knowing that isn't enough for me. I want to get better through continual practice, learning new techniques and so on. I don't intend to ever stop learning, and that will keep me loving it for the rest of my life. That's passion.

Just because you can get a lot of women into bed, it doesn't mean you're passionate. If you think you lack the necessary passion, then just dedicate yourself to becoming consistently better at it. There should never come a day where you tell yourself you have learned all there is to know.

And take your personal feelings out of the mix. If I draw a crappy picture of Homer Simpson, I don't feel bad. I believe in myself as an artist. I don't look at other artists' versions of Homer and go, "Why oh why, can't I draw Homer Simpson as good as they can? Will I ever be happy?" I either try drawing another Homer, which will definitely be better than the last, or, more likely, I will move on to another drawing. Or maybe a painting, or sculpture. I have moved on from thousands of bad works. And it's made me an excellent artist.

This is how you should view pickup. How well other people do it has no bearing on you. There are too many variables. Yes, there are rules you can learn, just like I need to understand things like value scales and 3-point perspective. In that sense, maybe there are "better" artists than me. But to me it's all about what makes my art unique. What is going on in my head, and in my life, that motivates me to paint the way I do, with the style I do?

Picasso and Frazetta had very different styles and techniques. But both are artists that bring something to the table that you can't get anywhere else. That's what you should strive to do in your life, with everything you do. Don't concern yourself with what others are doing, and how it reflects on you. Look inside yourself, learn who you are, be content with that, and paint your world with that brush.

Keep thinking about how you can improve yourself in all areas, and you will eventually have all the passion you can handle.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I see some immature, dumba$$, idiot, jerks who still

get puss*y pretty easy, and all they really do is party hard and smoke weed.

You only get as high quality a woman as you can. Those dumba$$ idiots are getting dumbass pu$$y. Don't be so quick to judge women on their appearance. Some of them, while looking smart and sometimes acting smart, can be very very stupid.

 

[TrueDonJuan]

You only put total effort into something if you are passionate about it. Passion improves your game, but it can also hinder it if you are too intense. The key is having a balance - a healthy level of passion.

 

[moneyisking]

wow thanks for the advices

 

[initiatorhater06]

For the most part women have this fairy tale fantasy that a man will come along, sweep her off her feet and take all of life's problems away. When that doesn't happen the relationship will turn sour quickly.

Men are just happy to be getting some action.