"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it true that BPD = just low attraction

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I always sensed a sort of seductive evil in her like the Jezebel spirit. She was diagnosed with BPD in the late 90's. How Brad lasted as long as he did is beyond me. Dude looked like a walking zombie when she was done with him.
Yup, supposedly he is going through a very deep depression right now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yup, supposedly he is going through a very deep depression right now.
He looks like me after my HPDex put me through the meat grinder. I lost 50lbs, my hair greyed 30% more, I started to randomly cry alone. I can only imagine what he endured in 10 years with her and all those kids. He looks so out of it, hope he rebounds.

You can feel such deep pain from this pic
 

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The guy my ex is with looks like a ghost she's slowly killing him, all I can say he looks horrible. He was a healthy young man before he met her he had everything going for him, its all gone now. She was cute he wanted her she latched on him, he was thinking with the wrong head, today he's screwed, his health is declined so much I doubt he would ever recover.

Not my problem, I got her out of my life before she could damage me anymore, I had job burnout and her causing stress in my life there was mornings I was surprised I woke up. Waking up in the morn with chest pains and numbness in my arms and face I knew I was in trouble I was getting phucking scared.

The last time I seen her I'm healthy and fit she probably didn't like that she didn't destroy me like she has with the previous men in her life. She was proud of the fact she destroyed the guy before me.
 

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I know a 60 year old guy with an anti social personality disorder (manipulative cold bastard, pity seeker, egocentrical eternal victim, conning people, inflated ego).
His wife is a diagnosed Borderliner.
They've been "happily" married for at least 30 years, well he beats the **** out of her once in a while, or he just leaves the house and doesn't come back for a week or 2.
So if you have some cluster B traits yourself it's easy to stay in a BPD relationship.

Their kids are massively damaged though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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