usernamedox11
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Yup, supposedly he is going through a very deep depression right now.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Is it true that BPD = just low attraction
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
stovepipe
Master Don Juan
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He looks like me after my HPDex put me through the meat grinder. I lost 50lbs, my hair greyed 30% more, I started to randomly cry alone. I can only imagine what he endured in 10 years with her and all those kids. He looks so out of it, hope he rebounds.
You can feel such deep pain from this pic
The guy my ex is with looks like a ghost she's slowly killing him, all I can say he looks horrible. He was a healthy young man before he met her he had everything going for him, its all gone now. She was cute he wanted her she latched on him, he was thinking with the wrong head, today he's screwed, his health is declined so much I doubt he would ever recover.
Not my problem, I got her out of my life before she could damage me anymore, I had job burnout and her causing stress in my life there was mornings I was surprised I woke up. Waking up in the morn with chest pains and numbness in my arms and face I knew I was in trouble I was getting phucking scared.
The last time I seen her I'm healthy and fit she probably didn't like that she didn't destroy me like she has with the previous men in her life. She was proud of the fact she destroyed the guy before me.
Not my problem, I got her out of my life before she could damage me anymore, I had job burnout and her causing stress in my life there was mornings I was surprised I woke up. Waking up in the morn with chest pains and numbness in my arms and face I knew I was in trouble I was getting phucking scared.
The last time I seen her I'm healthy and fit she probably didn't like that she didn't destroy me like she has with the previous men in her life. She was proud of the fact she destroyed the guy before me.
QuadDeuces
Master Don Juan
I know a 60 year old guy with an anti social personality disorder (manipulative cold bastard, pity seeker, egocentrical eternal victim, conning people, inflated ego).
His wife is a diagnosed Borderliner.
They've been "happily" married for at least 30 years, well he beats the **** out of her once in a while, or he just leaves the house and doesn't come back for a week or 2.
So if you have some cluster B traits yourself it's easy to stay in a BPD relationship.
Their kids are massively damaged though.
His wife is a diagnosed Borderliner.
They've been "happily" married for at least 30 years, well he beats the **** out of her once in a while, or he just leaves the house and doesn't come back for a week or 2.
So if you have some cluster B traits yourself it's easy to stay in a BPD relationship.
Their kids are massively damaged though.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.