Is it too early to marry at the age of 25?

[vince1992]

I joined a foreign dating event last January, which I considered to be very satisfying. At first, I was really focused on getting married whenever I found that special girl. But that thinking never lasts, is it worth it to get married this early? Given that I’m still 25? We all need that one special someone to be with us for the rest of our lives, but if age does really matter in tying the knot, when should be the right time? Please help!

 

[Serenity]

The right time is whenever a vast set of criteria are fulfilled, criteria that makes you feel as sure as you can get that she won't ever fvck you over. There's no specific age for that, but more years leaves you more opportunity to gain enough experience to make a good choice. Do not ever rush it and don't let your emotions make the decision alone, use your brain.

It's no joke and not something that should be taken lightly. Younger guys are more likely to make a bad choice because they have less experience and the rational part of the brain is not fully developed below the age of 25.

If age is what you worry about then your concerns are on the wrong thing. You should worry about all the ways a marriage can mess you up in the long run and be sure it won't lead to that. Like really fvcking sure, put some serious consideration to it.

 

[Spaz]

Around the age of 35 you should consider finding someone to settle down.

By 38 - 40 you'll need to decide if she's wife worthy or not.

Below the age of 35, time is better spent playing the field and setting up your career.

 

[sosousage]

when ill hit 25 if all goes well ill travel countries from one to next

people make major mistake of marryign too soon then they get cheated on and in the end it seems they are boring singles who didnt accomplish anything interesting in life

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Nice job A Foreign Affair. But I’m not falling for this ****. Stop spamming our website. No one wants to go to your stupid ****.

 

[wifehunter]

What's more important is, WHO you are marrying. Most people behave like children, anyway. So, by default, it's usually a bad idea.

Age is just a measurement of how long, not how far.

Think in terms of maturity level, not time.

 

[Dingo]

YES !

 

[Bible_Belt]

I joined a foreign dating event last January, which I considered to be very satisfying. At first, I was really focused on getting married whenever I found that special girl. But that thinking never lasts, is it worth it to get married this early? Given that I’m still 25? We all need that one special someone to be with us for the rest of our lives, but if age does really matter in tying the knot, when should be the right time? Please help!

I'm sure it's a bot placing this spam, but it would be nice to think that there was a real person behind it who could read my reply to GO FVCK YOURSELF

 

[Trump]

Around the age of 35 you should consider finding someone to settle down.

By 38 - 40 you'll need to decide if she's wife worthy or not.

Why?

It’s like the state doesn’t want to take care of her so you have to. And if you want out, the state will destroy you. Plus, she has access to all the resources you do.

So marriage if just for kids. Even then she can destroy you. Go America and #Metoo!

 

[zekko]

As a man in today's culture, it's probably never a good idea to get married.
Biologically speaking, the younger the better. Couples getting married in their early 20s are more likely to give birth to healthy children.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

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[Spaz]

Why?

It’s like the state doesn’t want to take care of her so you have to. And if you want out, the state will destroy you. Plus, she has access to all the resources you do.

So marriage if just for kids. Even then she can destroy you. Go America and #Metoo!

Same reason why your ancient cave dwelling ancestors took women/mates/wife's.

 

[Trump]

Same reason why your ancient cave dwelling ancestors took women/mates/wife's.

Ancient cave dwelling ancestors had access to resources women/mates/wife’s didn’t. Now they do.

 

[Spaz]

Ancient cave dwelling ancestors had access to resources women/mates/wife’s didn’t. Now they do.

Successful Ancient cave dwelling ancestor knew how to be hunt/kill/take what they wanted - resources.

Ancient women and modern women resources has remained the same; their pvssy and ability to pass on man's genes.

Only change I see now is modern man being a pvssy and keep complaining whilst doing a disservice to the memory/traditions of his long line of successful ancestors.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Do whatever you want, just sign a prenuptial.

 

[Masculinity]

I joined a foreign dating event last January, which I considered to be very satisfying. At first, I was really focused on getting married whenever I found that special girl. But that thinking never lasts, is it worth it to get married this early? Given that I’m still 25? We all need that one special someone to be with us for the rest of our lives, but if age does really matter in tying the knot, when should be the right time? Please help!

Yes, too early.

 

[El Payaso]

On average, the best age to get married is 28.

Waiting till your 30s to get married and have kids decreases the chances of having a healthy child and increases the chances of autism in the child.

You want to look for a woman who is between 23 to 26. Very ripe and fertile age for having healthy kids.

 

[skinnyguy]

If the girl is dedicated to helping you grow, achieve your dreams, and is a ride to die chick. Hell ****ing yeah. If she is hot too, jesus christ what are you doing!? Go marry her right ****ing now. (there is a risk with marrying as people can change but if you can see she is ****ing solid, go for it)

Don't be needy but let her invest in you and let her see the direction in life that you are headed and she will want to go along for the ride.

I wish there were women like that these days

 

[skinnyguy]

Oh if one can only dream. Chances of finding one in america is pretty slim but I think foreign women will have a higher chance of having this quality, especially countries in south america where family values are number one.

I dream of a day where women don't look around for the most "popular" guy whose only fame comes from being "cute". I dream of a day where women have their OWN life and passions and hobbies and not be like sheep where there only identity comes from what their girlfriends think. I dream of a day where even if a women's friends say a man is bad for her, she has her own independent thought and makes up her own mind on these matters.

I dream of a day where a women embraces her femininity, providing unconditional love in her environment and being the light and source of nurture and care that people can go to. I dream of a day where women see the beauty in LIFE and not just the image people put on.

This is a quote from pook that I whole heartedly agree 100%. "You can judge a women from how she treats people who can do nothing for her". This is a true mark of a women. A women who loves unconditionally and sees VALUE in ALL life. The one where she gives her whole life to her family and willing to sacrifice herself for the care and love of her children and husband.

But now we are living in a society where it is shameful for women to give herself to her family. It is all bout work work work work work! It is all about who slept with "that" guy. It is all about who got the 2.5 kids, the cherry husband whose a doctor or lawyer, and who has a better lawn/car.

As I am typing this paragraph out I am getting more and more depressed but it is the truth and I can't run from it so writing it down helps me clarify my thoughts and to decide what my next step is. I definetly want to go to south america and experience the culture their along with their family values. I can't really see myself with women in america as most are so used up and gross to be honest.

I guess you can say I am bitter but this bitterness is not from jealousy, loss, or hatred. It is a bitterness coming from a kid who goes to a tree to bite an apple expecting a succulent delicious fruit and getting a rotten, spoiled apple, with a worm in the middle (lol).

I don't know if my standards are too high or I am not giving women these days a fair chance. Anyone else feel this way?

South America is a mixed bag. Almost every single chick there has a kid. Many are CRAZY. They are wonderful lovers but be careful.

 

[CBear]

On average, the best age to get married is 28.

Waiting till your 30s to get married and have kids decreases the chances of having a healthy child and increases the chances of autism in the child.

You want to look for a woman who is between 23 to 26. Very ripe and fertile age for having healthy kids.

You're talking about women here.

Statistically proven that after 35, WOMEN'S chances of having a healthy child are decreased yearly.

Therefore I believe that early 30s are perfect for a guy to get married. But for a woman, I'd say mid to late 20s tbh.