"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is It Time To Drop This Plate? 3 flakes

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THIS... you're a fool bruh. All you had to do was say ok and cuddle with the ho. She would of eventually wanted sex.

No man I didn't want to see her that night... i just ignored her text message.. Sometimes i cannot even be fuked texting her back
 

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THIS... you're a fool bruh. All you had to do was say ok and cuddle with the ho. She would of eventually wanted sex.

If i wanted to fuk her that night, i would have said yeh come down.. she just flaked, so i couldn't be arsed
 

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No man I didn't want to see her that night... i just ignored her text message.. Sometimes i cannot even be fuked texting her back
You don't like that she's flaking and u wanna smash her again, but then you wanna play games and be picky about what day you want to see her when she's texting and calling you. You gotta strike when the irons hot. Don't play games back with her. Let women get caught up in all that. You just ignore it and act as if u don't even notice it. You don't play games to get a women to act how you want. You talk to her and directly tell her what you don't like. If she cares she will fix it, if not you move on
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You don't like that she's flaking and u wanna smash her again, but then you wanna play games and be picky about what day you want to see her when she's texting and calling you. You gotta strike when the irons hot. Don't play games back with her. Let women get caught up in all that. You just ignore it and act as if u don't even notice it. You don't play games to get a women to act how you want. You talk to her and directly tell her what you don't like. If she cares she will fix it, if not you move on
Dude go back to the beginning of this thread... I was not playing games..

I am pretty much done with this chick... 3 flakes for me is not acceptable..

I ignored that text, because I have no intention of seeing her again.
 

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Dude go back to the beginning of this thread... I was not playing games..

I am pretty much done with this chick... 3 flakes for me is not acceptable..

I ignored that text, because I have no intention of seeing her again.
She was flaking because she's scared you're going to hurt her. She thinks u just want sex. She said that in the text and u just ignored her. Just say something to ease her mind bro. Those weren't low interest flakes, those were I'm scared, I know he's a player flakes
 

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She was flaking because she's scared you're going to hurt her. She thinks u just want sex. She said that in the text and u just ignored her. Just say something to ease her mind bro. Those weren't low interest flakes, those were I'm scared, I know he's a player flakes
I already know this.. this chick has feels for me.. but I cannot give her a relationship...

She maybe scared, but playing games and controlling the sex is not going to help with the matter..

I already told her what my expectations are, and have been honest with her.

I will give you an example..

She messages me 10 mins ago..

Her - Let Me Know When You Want To Talk x

Me - Ok will text tomorrow, just with friends at the mo

Her - Its never stopped you from talking to me before, when your with your mates

Her - I am at work tomorrow, so will text if i can


Firstly she can text at any moment, from work, so saying she will text if she can is BS

Second my mates only just left, so i was off to bed, tired, so told her will chat tomorrow..


So whats with the fuking attitude she has got..

This is why i don't take her seriously lol
 

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Too much chit chat. She wants to talk. Tell her to come over and talk.

You're making things too complicated. Less talk, more action. You need to **** or get off the pot.
 

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No. Interested women do not flake.

It's not a flake if she counter offers. No counter offer means she doesn't care. Stop tolerating flakes.
So you're saying you have a 0% flake rate?

Impossible. I myself flake more than 0%, again I flake about 5%-10%.

The greatest lover I ever had (which lasted nearly a year) flaked 16% (she always gave a rain check and always came through). It was nearly always on the same day of the month (we eventually agreed to avoid that day). Women are on their period 16%. Coincidence?

The more dates you have with her, the more flakes you will see. Look at the percentage of time she flakes, not the number of times she flaked.

EDIT - we may differ on the rain check factor meaning it's not a flake. She obviously never flaked forever.
She was flaking because she's scared you're going to hurt her. She thinks u just want sex.
They say resistance is often a request for more romance.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Correct.

If she flakes, she's out for good. Buh-bye

If she counter-offers, it's not a flake.



No. Resistance is low interest level. Women with high interest level don't resist.
Every seduction features a point of resistance.
 

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She offered to come down today, but in her text she put, No Sex only cuddling..

Again controling the sex.. she later apologised for what she said.. I couldn't be bothered even replying
Lololol. What is she coming over so you guys can watch friends and play scrabble??? Women these days.

Sex is always on the table regardless of what she says. But like you said, way too much work to deal with.
 

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Lololol. What is she coming over so you guys can watch friends and play scrabble??? Women these days.

Sex is always on the table regardless of what she says. But like you said, way too much work to deal with.

The only time i wana cuddle her, is after I have smashed her... but yeh I rather use my time with chicks, who don't put up so many barriers..

She can easily be replaced with a girl, more willing
 

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another text from her today..

Her - Are we meeting this weekend, it's ok if your busy

her 3rd attempt to meet me...

The thing is, I am finding her to be pretty boring right now...

we have gone from texting/talking sex every single day... to not a single word of sex mentioned by her in the last two weeks..

but still she wants to meet me.. she has killed off the sexual chemistry, because she wants to use sex as control

I'm seriously losing interest in her... so again I'm gona just ignore till she gives up
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're full of it man. If you were losing interest you wouldn't be posting about her.

Have her come over to "cuddle," stroke her brains out, and move on with your life. You're going back and forth about this like a woman. Make a move. She's asking you to come over.
 

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You're full of it man. If you were losing interest you wouldn't be posting about her.

Have her come over to "cuddle," stroke her brains out, and move on with your life. You're going back and forth about this like a woman. Make a move. She's asking you to come over.

No No No.. When a girl becomes manipulative, and starts using her puzzy, to get what she wants out of you, it's time to EJECT

She wants control, and everything else, and gives very little in return

Fuk giving her cuddles, even with plates there should be a level of mutual respect..

If you give in to her frame, she will turn up the heat, and keep withdrawing the sex..

I rather keep my self respect and bang easy going chicks..


She can cuddle her teddy bear from here on.. still remaining NC
 

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You're a mess. Read the DJ Bible.

Her "cuddling" is code for she wants to **** and is convincing herself of a non sexual reason to come over.

Work on your ego man. You aren't thinking rationally.

Dude you need to get a fuking grip... Your talking like you know this chick...

Do you think i have mentioned every single interaction with this girl on here..there is chit you don't know about...

Am I her fukin head doctor..no...

The only thing you need in life is gut instinct... your GUT knows when some chit is up... your GUT also knows when biches are playing games, or using dread...

Biggest mistake dudes make, is not following their gut instinct.. what code?

I feel sorry for you man.. If some chic was playing you for a fool, you would consider all her mind games, and power plays as CODE for wanting sex lol... come on dude


Chicks normaly start getting ****ky and overly confident, and playing games, when there is another dog in the Yard..

This is no damsel in distress who just needs a cuddle, and all will be well...

This girl gives crazy awesome sex, but knows how to use it to her advantage aswell..

CODE FOR SEX LOL
 

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Dude you need to get a fuking grip... Your talking like you know this chick...

Do you think i have mentioned every single interaction with this girl on here..there is chit you don't know about...

Am I her fukin head doctor..no...

The only thing you need in life is gut instinct... your GUT knows when some chit is up... your GUT also knows when biches are playing games, or using dread...

Biggest mistake dudes make, is not following their gut instinct.. what code?

I feel sorry for you man.. If some chic was playing you for a fool, you would consider all her mind games, and power plays as CODE for wanting sex lol... come on dude


Chicks normaly start getting ****ky and overly confident, and playing games, when there is another dog in the Yard..

This is no damsel in distress who just needs a cuddle, and all will be well...

This girl gives crazy awesome sex, but knows how to use it to her advantage aswell..

CODE FOR SEX LOL
I know what you mean when she killed sexual conversation. So cuddle likely means cuddle.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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