Is it time? Never had a proper Girlfriend at 30.

[Demonicale]

Ok I'm just going to get right to the point. I'm no virgin, and I've had a lot of ***** in my life. Not as much as I'd like, but I've done OK.

What I'm worried about is that I've never had a proper girlfriend all my life, and now I'm 30. I've had quite a few one nighters and **** buddies. But I've never had a proper relationship.

I've been asked a few times by women when the last time i was with someone and i never really know what to say. I've had a few options to have one, just they are with women i class as below average.

To my question, would you guys advise going with a women who isn't very good looking just to get some girlfriend experience? I know this is really sad and low to ask, but you guys are the ones i respect for advice. I wouldn't have posted this if it wasn't weighing heavily on my mind.

Appreciate any advice good or bad.

Thanks.

 

[jurry]

There's no reason to get "girlfriend experience" unless you actually want the girl to be your girlfriend. Why would you waste both peoples time starting a relationship if it was someone you knew it wasnt going to work out with? If you like the girl, go for it. If you don't, you will just be miserable.

 

[Demonicale]

What i mean is should i lower my expectations in women?

 

[jurry]

You should never settle. But be realistic.. You're not necessarily going to end up with a supermodel. And there may be a girl who isnt as attractive looks wise but you guys really hit it off well. Thats what it comes down to, do you guys laugh and make each other smile and challenge and understand each other? If so, may be a good prospect for an LTR.

 

[Demonicale]

Attractive women like to play mind games and **** around. Comes a point where your sick of that, and think dating down is the way to go.

 

[VikingKing]

If you want this. Find a well educated foreign (but already in your country on her own) wallflower.

They tend to make good servants/ companions.

They may be hard to get though, I think they have a tendency to have a cold exterior, they are very protective because they arn't as messed up in the head as most women are.

Strong ***** shields

 

[styleman]

Ok I'm just going to get right to the point. I'm no virgin, and I've had a lot of ***** in my life. Not as much as I'd like, but I've done OK.

What I'm worried about is that I've never had a proper girlfriend all my life, and now I'm 30. I've had quite a few one nighters and **** buddies. But I've never had a proper relationship.

I've been asked a few times by women when the last time i was with someone and i never really know what to say. I've had a few options to have one, just they are with women i class as below average.

To my question, would you guys advise going with a women who isn't very good looking just to get some girlfriend experience? I know this is really sad and low to ask, but you guys are the ones i respect for advice. I wouldn't have posted this if it wasn't weighing heavily on my mind.

Appreciate any advice good or bad.

Thanks.

If you have slept with a girl I don't see why she would not be willing to be your girlfriend.

No real reason to lower your standards...

 

[Mike32ct]

I would say no to experimenting with a gf. Only if she's someone you actually want to date.

I'm in a similar situation. I've been laid, but haven't had a proper gf as of yet. If I meet the right one, I will. But I can't and won't string someone along just to say I had a proper relationship.