"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is it time for a NEW DJ Bible?

Should the DJ Bible be revised?

  • Yes, we need a whole new Bible

    Votes: 49 51.0%
  • It just needs some minor modifications/updates

    Votes: 38 39.6%
  • No, it's fine as it is

    Votes: 9 9.4%

  • Total voters
    96

Jariel

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Originally posted by penkitten
new testament should include posts about improving yourself in different areas such as education, health, life changing experiences etc
I definitely agree with this. It's an area that has been neglected somewhat by the original Bible, but is a large aspect of the DJ lifestyle and a solution to low confidence, desperation and many other AFC problems.


This site *used* to be about girls.
But if you're a geek, slob or a loser, or just not attractive, how are you going to get girls without some form of self-improvement? Plus, the better you are as a man, the easier it will be to attract women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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frivolousz21

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The beggening of it..should be 100 percent on self improvement in all areas....then proceddng to women.

also the BOOTCAMP..should start with self improvement as well.

I think we should seriously get the mods to consider this project. it could be done in less than a month..thing change....and its time for an update
 

Nicholas Hill

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I have read all of the above posts.

A couple of points:

1) The bible is long. Yes it is. It is not short, because a short bible will be a watered down piece of crap that has no real content. We all know that becoming a DJ takes some long, hard work and can take years. I do not expect the reading of the bible to be easier than that.

2) The boot camp book, compiled by me (the series originally made by a good man, Master of the Universe and completed for the first time by Walden) contains only DJB articles and some commentary. It is in part the "condensed version" some of you may be looking for, but keep in mind the fact that it is a real-life course designed to be COMPLETED in real-life in only a few weeks. That's why it only has a few weeks of reading material.

3) The DJB is not as accurate as the real Bible. Take from that statement what you will! I merely wish to say that the DJB is made by fallable man. Although I will say this: sometimes, it is the perfect answer to a situation to do something completely contradictory to what you have so far learned.

4) Pook... if you love him so much why don't you marry him! Seriously, don't give Pook god status. He once asked the same common questions you see here today. I have seen the posts myself.

5) The Bible is updated based on the feedback I receive. I've had no feedback recently! Hence, no updates. PM me with ideas if you wish and see how quickly I get on with it.

Check out my new thread on DJB article admission policy, guys, and make some suggestions.

Nick
 

wowiehowie

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Bible? Never seen it, never read it, don't need it. If it's all the same, scrap it. On second thought don't. How else will you DJ's learn "inner game"? ;)
 

Distant Light

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Originally posted by 007~JC
This site *used* to be about girls. :crackup:

-007
lmao

I think it should be a new bible. Too much on inner game, alot of AFC stuff in there, and some things that just wouldn't really help you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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