"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it submissive...

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To follow your own rules?

Meaning, if you tell yourself that you're going to work on a project at 3:00 on Wednesday and you do when the time comes up, you're essentially following orders, albeit your own.

It's just that it feels like being controlled because when the time comes up, you're inevitably in some other mood than when you made the original decision, and it seems like it's coming from outside.

This is more of a success question than a skirt-chasing one, but one of the DJ principles is to be dominant.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No. That's called discipline, and it's a quality that more of us should possess.
 
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Originally posted by cactus3178
No. That's called discipline, and it's a quality that more of us should possess.
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he nailed it, he couldnt be more right
 
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Being Dominant means following your own rules, and not breaking your plan/rules unless you see fit or there is an exception.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You got submit to something, you might as well submit to yourself, or your alternate personality.
 
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We all submit to something. Whether emotion, pleasure, power, happiness, everything we do is a submission.
 
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It's a very good thing to have order in your life. A person without self-discipline will never get anything accomplished. Everyone needs rules and limits, especially since some people are frivolous and don't know when to stop....or when to start, for that matter.
 
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