Is it submissive...

[MackJr]

To follow your own rules?

Meaning, if you tell yourself that you're going to work on a project at 3:00 on Wednesday and you do when the time comes up, you're essentially following orders, albeit your own.

It's just that it feels like being controlled because when the time comes up, you're inevitably in some other mood than when you made the original decision, and it seems like it's coming from outside.

This is more of a success question than a skirt-chasing one, but one of the DJ principles is to be dominant.

 

[cactus3178]

No. That's called discipline, and it's a quality that more of us should possess.

 

[undesputable]

Originally posted by cactus3178
No. That's called discipline, and it's a quality that more of us should possess.

he nailed it, he couldnt be more right

 

[Interpol]

If you don't even follow your own rules, then all you're doing is drifting through life aimlessly - that's not gonna get you anywhere buddy.

 

[Okra]

Being Dominant means following your own rules, and not breaking your plan/rules unless you see fit or there is an exception.

 

[superpud]

You got submit to something, you might as well submit to yourself, or your alternate personality.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

We all submit to something. Whether emotion, pleasure, power, happiness, everything we do is a submission.

 

[Elfynne]

It's a very good thing to have order in your life. A person without self-discipline will never get anything accomplished. Everyone needs rules and limits, especially since some people are frivolous and don't know when to stop....or when to start, for that matter.