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Is it smart to have PUA books lying around??

Chamber36

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I've got The Art of Seduction, The Art of War, The 48 Laws of Power and The Game all on quasi-display on a bookshelf under my TV.

A female friend of mine just moved into the place, is it really smart to have those books lying around?

She just asked me today hanging out what kind of books I read, I didn't go into detail but I told her about Pimp: Story of my life by Iceberg Slim.

I known her for years but I don't really want to be in the danger of having anyone project negative qualities like narcissism or a tendency to manipulate onto me because I'm reading books like that.

What do you guys do with your PUA books? Should I just consider them Man-books and leave them on display, or should I become more modest and keep them more private?
 

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Well you can do two things...get rid of them/hide them...or use them to your benefit...if shes asks why u have them tell her...your second job involves helping people learn suducation...helping hopeless guys realize they can have the women of their dreams (aka ur hitch/dating coach) this will raise your value two fold... it shows you have compassion wanting to help others aswell as she knows you are good with women....

just a thought
 

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lol she will laugh at me because she knows I am not a dating coach

Thanks for the advice though. I think I'll leave them on display. As long as it's congruent with my image it's all good. On the other hand, there is Law 30 from The 48 Laws of Power: Make your accomplishments seem effortless, there is also Law 48: Assume Formlessness.

It seems a little risky to me tbh. The Game because I don't want anyone to project that onto me. There could be any type of stupid association with that book because of social stigma. It's a stupid book almost in my own opinion. Perhaps I Could be forgiven because I bought it years ago.

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I used to have Ron Louis & David Copeland's book "How to Succeed with Women", but threw the book away because it was an embarassment.

I have the 48 Laws of Power laying around and so far so good. Understanding power protects you from power, and that's the explanation I would give.
 
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