Is it sex addiction or sexual ability?

[DariusTheBartender]

Hi guys,

I've thought about this for a long time but theres only a limited number of people I can talk to in person. I have a high number count of women I have been with. I've gone thru pretty crazy measures to have sex (never paying for it!) From internet meetups and going into parts unknown in 3rd world travels with women I just met, then of course just way too many late nights at bars... but I digress...

Guys with high numbers that aren't paying for it, aren't porn addicted (I actually watch none now), dont masturbate multiple times a day (I only do once or twice), didnt get fired over sex stuff etc... are we sex addicts or is it purely we are able to do what most single men would if whatever restrictions be it religion, monogamy, or just lack of game applied?

It's been a long time but I remember at one point the Psychology DSM didnt list sex addiction. I wish I could find the study but they said that compared to gambling or drugs it didnt have the same effects on the brain... to me its biological... but I'd love to hear other opinions?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If your a "freak" you shouldnt reveal to a non freak. They dont understand and will label you as addicted.

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

If your a "freak" you shouldnt reveal to a non freak. They dont understand and will label you as addicted.

This. Hide the whips and floggers until someone flashes you the secret gesture. People are so judgmental.

 

[Trump]

Hi guys,

I've thought about this for a long time but theres only a limited number of people I can talk to in person. I have a high number count of women I have been with. I've gone thru pretty crazy measures to have sex (never paying for it!) From internet meetups and going into parts unknown in 3rd world travels with women I just met, then of course just way too many late nights at bars... but I digress...

Guys with high numbers that aren't paying for it, aren't porn addicted (I actually watch none now), dont masturbate multiple times a day (I only do once or twice), didnt get fired over sex stuff etc... are we sex addicts or is it purely we are able to do what most single men would if whatever restrictions be it religion, monogamy, or just lack of game applied?

When guys go out of their way to mention:

- they have HIGH numbers (2x in 5 sentences)
- they are NOT paying for it (2x in 5 sentences)
- they are NOT porn addicted
- they didn’t get FIRED over sex stuff

It means:

- they have LOW numebrs
- they are paying for it
- they are porn addicted
- they did get fired

The evidence shows you want to be called a sex addict who doesn’t pay for it and doesn’t watch porn. In other words, you are so smooth girls are privileged to have sex with you.

OK, we will label you a sex addict.

 

[sazc]

you can probably find it but the measure for something that is an addiction has something to do with that it interrupts the normal ebb and flow of your life.

if, otherwise, your life is fine you go to work you sleep you have decent relationships with your family friends Etc then you don't have an issue

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This. Hide the whips and floggers until someone flashes you the secret gesture. People are so judgmental.

They can flag you for fvcking your own wife or husband most nights.

 

[The Duke]

I've been with a lot of girls and for me it was all about seducing and conquering. Never an addiction that caused issues in my life, although there have been periods I devoted large amounts of time to chasing women. It was always something that was healthy....I put work into and got enjoyment from.

It's a thrill. Its powerful. It's adventurous. It's challenging. It's mental. It's physical. It's visual. It's sensual. It's high's and low's.

Meeting a woman for the first time and pulling out all the stops that lead her to drop her panties was a game I enjoyed very much.
Making her feel things she never felt before because all of the previous guys didn't have the understanding I did was very powerful.

I've always been a sexual person and have deep appreciation for fine female bodies. Sex for me is never something that takes only 20minutes. I'm a marathon guy and enjoy every inch of their bodies. Far too much pleasure to be had for her and me.

I got off more on the quest, than I did the actual sex although it was always very enjoyable. The quest is what drove me to the next one. I'm a hunter.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

When does it become an "addiction"? An asexual or ultra conservative person might think someone who has sex most nights is addicted.