mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This guy is hilarious. It's like a kid rather starve to death instead of eat what is available .
How can you be picky when you have NOTHING?
How can you be picky when you have NOTHING?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is it screwed up that I almost wish I was born gay??
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SHUT THE FUKK UP WITH THIS BULLSH*T
I DON'T CARE ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH 6/10s OR SINGLE MOMS OR WOMEN OVER 30
IT DOES NOTHING TO IMPROVE ANYTHING
I DON'T COME ACROSS SEX STARVED BECAUSE I DON'T CARE ABOUT GETTING LAID. YOU'VE REPEATED THE SAME ADVICE 50 MILLION TIMES, I DON'T CARE
Misterchaos
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THEN WHY ASK THE SAME QUESTIONS CENTERED AROUND THE SAME ISSUE?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You keep trying to frame your viewpoint which has not worked!
We are giving bits and pieces of how LIFE works.
I don't care about getting laid dude
I've had sex with women way below my league before, it didn't help me in the slightest bit
I need female attention from women in my league
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How do you think a man that doesn't have women into him, that from where he's seeking they frame him as a safe FRIEND. And that same man doesn't have sex and doesn't even WANT it?
My friend that looks a certain way to people in your image! They can tell!
My friend that looks a certain way to people in your image! They can tell!
MatureDJ
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I went to an all-boy's high school (actually a few years in the preparatory middle school), such that I went through puberty and all that good stuff surrounded by other boys and mostly male teachers. I had to learn "game" 
on my own and use it completely out of the school environment, so a school like Ridgemont High (of "Fast Times at" fame) was totally unknown to me. I wasn't a Chad (too short, so maybe I was a Chadlet, LOL?), but everyone told me I was cute, FWIW. Fat chicks seemed to always make their acquaintance, so maybe I look cute enough to want, but short enough for them to not have to worry about Stacys stealing me away?
Anyway, the non-Chads had it rough, really rough, as not only generally did they have no exposure to women, but when they did interact, they got the gentle brush-off the way the FaceAndLMS YouTube author shows it. A fair number of these lads ended up playing for the other team - and some of my friends from school who were in this non-Chad category assert that being thrust into that environment and having no luck with women, they just decide to become homo, and it really took a a very heterosexual compass to remain hetero in the face of such failure with women. One of the guys was well on his way to being the 40-year-old virgin until he asked around (more like begging) for everyone he knew to set him up (it did work eventually), and the other has become a bit of a player in his 50s with single grannies , although it looks like he is in with a gal that had blown him off years ago, but saw him around recently, and she was more interested this time.
on my own and use it completely out of the school environment, so a school like Ridgemont High (of "Fast Times at" fame) was totally unknown to me. I wasn't a Chad (too short, so maybe I was a Chadlet, LOL?), but everyone told me I was cute, FWIW. Fat chicks seemed to always make their acquaintance, so maybe I look cute enough to want, but short enough for them to not have to worry about Stacys stealing me away? Anyway, the non-Chads had it rough, really rough, as not only generally did they have no exposure to women, but when they did interact, they got the gentle brush-off the way the FaceAndLMS YouTube author shows it. A fair number of these lads ended up playing for the other team - and some of my friends from school who were in this non-Chad category assert that being thrust into that environment and having no luck with women, they just decide to become homo
, and it really took a a very heterosexual compass to remain hetero in the face of such failure with women. One of the guys was well on his way to being the 40-year-old virgin until he asked around (more like begging) for everyone he knew to set him up (it did work eventually), and the other has become a bit of a player in his 50s with single grannies , although it looks like he is in with a gal that had blown him off years ago, but saw him around recently, and she was more interested this time.
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Misterchaos
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There it is.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Neediness . Reeks of it.
Women can sense a man who doesn't get laid because he comes across as sex starved
I don't come across as sex starved because I simply don't care. I'm looking for a girl I have a great connection/chemistry with. I'm not trying to get laid ASAP. The sex will happen whenever it happens, I don't even think about it
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i wish i was born gay
nothing to do with considering becoming gay. I'm not attracted to men even 1%
Being born gay would have saved me a lot of suffering and frustration. I would instantly have the dating life I deserve overnight (in terms of having people interested in me who were my league - smart, very attractive, in great shape, classy, great personality, good jobs, etc... i could probably have a male model boyfriend if I was gay and I can't even get a 7/10 female my age to like me)
mrgoodstuff
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That's it. I think I need to get off here.
zekko
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You've been beating a dead horse, foodstuff, but you're right. The irony is that if he was just more of a dog, I bet he would have already found an LTR girl he was happy with.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.