"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it right to feel guilty?

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I met this doctor the other day, and I was into her for a while, but in honesty she is a bit of a slob. Whilst I did not say why we didn't think we'd work out, she started crying saying she was really lonely. :down: I don't like to turn any woman away whom I like in the least, but then I feel guilty. :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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namismybabe said:
I met this doctor the other day, and I was into her for a while, but in honesty she is a bit of a slob. Whilst I did not say why we didn't think we'd work out, she started crying saying she was really lonely. :down: I don't like to turn any woman away whom I like in the least, but then I feel guilty. :confused:
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one more reason for you to stay away, every time she don't get things her way she will try to push for guilty trip on you.

but its up to you if you want someone like her around
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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From my understanding, people who feel guilty about nonsense like this (no offense) have been used a lot in life. Because you sympathize with people who are sad, because you know how they feel, you know how they feel because you have been taken advantage of a lot. Stop being so nice man.

Who gives a fvck if you rejected her, you think woman felt bad for rejecting you? 99% of the time they do not care. You should do the same.
 
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Feeling guilty for turning down a woman you are not attracted to is incredibly AFC. Your feeling of guilt in that situation is a reflection of an internal belief that you automatically owe something to women - all women. I bet you would not feel guilty about turning down the advances of a gay man (assuming you are not gay yourself...) Yet, you feel guilty about turning down a woman. Think about that for a second.
 
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You had the choice of going for something that you had a bad feeling for or to stop it before it gets harder. You chose the latter and saved yourself a lot of time and energy you can now put into something that makes you feel good.

Now you can be unhappy and eventually get over it instead of keep being unhappy with her.

Your reason to feel guilty is that you don't like to turn women away, yet you did it. You can either change your values or your actions. If you stick to the value of not turning women away this may cause problems later on. If you change the value to "I don't like to turn women away unless [add things you don't like]" then it would be easier to justify your action by the things you don't tolerate.

You will feel good when all your actions matches what you think.
 
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DonGorgon said:
its normal to feel guilty but right and wrong and purely 8subjective.
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Right and wrong don't even exist.

Though this proves the sociopathy of the average PUA.
 
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From my understanding, people who feel guilty about nonsense like this (no offense) have been used a lot in life. Because you sympathize with people who are sad, because you know how they feel, you know how they feel because you have been taken advantage of a lot. Stop being so nice man.

Who gives a fvck if you rejected her, you think woman felt bad for rejecting you? 99% of the time they do not care. You should do the same.
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Er.. no, it's called emotion. And who determines nonsense? Importance is relative, duh.

Don't PUAs teach life wisdom?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grewd said:
You had the choice of going for something that you had a bad feeling for or to stop it before it gets harder. You chose the latter and saved yourself a lot of time and energy you can now put into something that makes you feel good.

Now you can be unhappy and eventually get over it instead of keep being unhappy with her.

Your reason to feel guilty is that you don't like to turn women away, yet you did it. You can either change your values or your actions. If you stick to the value of not turning women away this may cause problems later on. If you change the value to "I don't like to turn women away unless [add things you don't like]" then it would be easier to justify your action by the things you don't tolerate.

You will feel good when all your actions matches what you think.
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People contradict. And?

I turn women away all the time for trivial things, who cares? the world is a free for all.
 
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