Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is it right to feel guilty?

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I met this doctor the other day, and I was into her for a while, but in honesty she is a bit of a slob. Whilst I did not say why we didn't think we'd work out, she started crying saying she was really lonely. :down: I don't like to turn any woman away whom I like in the least, but then I feel guilty. :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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namismybabe said:
I met this doctor the other day, and I was into her for a while, but in honesty she is a bit of a slob. Whilst I did not say why we didn't think we'd work out, she started crying saying she was really lonely. :down: I don't like to turn any woman away whom I like in the least, but then I feel guilty. :confused:
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one more reason for you to stay away, every time she don't get things her way she will try to push for guilty trip on you.

but its up to you if you want someone like her around
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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From my understanding, people who feel guilty about nonsense like this (no offense) have been used a lot in life. Because you sympathize with people who are sad, because you know how they feel, you know how they feel because you have been taken advantage of a lot. Stop being so nice man.

Who gives a fvck if you rejected her, you think woman felt bad for rejecting you? 99% of the time they do not care. You should do the same.
 
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Feeling guilty for turning down a woman you are not attracted to is incredibly AFC. Your feeling of guilt in that situation is a reflection of an internal belief that you automatically owe something to women - all women. I bet you would not feel guilty about turning down the advances of a gay man (assuming you are not gay yourself...) Yet, you feel guilty about turning down a woman. Think about that for a second.
 
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You had the choice of going for something that you had a bad feeling for or to stop it before it gets harder. You chose the latter and saved yourself a lot of time and energy you can now put into something that makes you feel good.

Now you can be unhappy and eventually get over it instead of keep being unhappy with her.

Your reason to feel guilty is that you don't like to turn women away, yet you did it. You can either change your values or your actions. If you stick to the value of not turning women away this may cause problems later on. If you change the value to "I don't like to turn women away unless [add things you don't like]" then it would be easier to justify your action by the things you don't tolerate.

You will feel good when all your actions matches what you think.
 
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DonGorgon said:
its normal to feel guilty but right and wrong and purely 8subjective.
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Right and wrong don't even exist.

Though this proves the sociopathy of the average PUA.
 
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From my understanding, people who feel guilty about nonsense like this (no offense) have been used a lot in life. Because you sympathize with people who are sad, because you know how they feel, you know how they feel because you have been taken advantage of a lot. Stop being so nice man.

Who gives a fvck if you rejected her, you think woman felt bad for rejecting you? 99% of the time they do not care. You should do the same.
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Er.. no, it's called emotion. And who determines nonsense? Importance is relative, duh.

Don't PUAs teach life wisdom?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Grewd said:
You had the choice of going for something that you had a bad feeling for or to stop it before it gets harder. You chose the latter and saved yourself a lot of time and energy you can now put into something that makes you feel good.

Now you can be unhappy and eventually get over it instead of keep being unhappy with her.

Your reason to feel guilty is that you don't like to turn women away, yet you did it. You can either change your values or your actions. If you stick to the value of not turning women away this may cause problems later on. If you change the value to "I don't like to turn women away unless [add things you don't like]" then it would be easier to justify your action by the things you don't tolerate.

You will feel good when all your actions matches what you think.
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People contradict. And?

I turn women away all the time for trivial things, who cares? the world is a free for all.
 
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