"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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is it right to assume that if she has lots of options she might forget you

pikachu69

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They say on here that you shouldn't contact them to often esp if yhry aren't as interested anymore but if they have 100s of new guys each week (tinder, bars, clubs) surely they won't remember you if there interest fades slightly?

Whenever I have 10 options I end up forgetting 1-2 not that im not interested but I just have too many options that it is natural to forget.

If you go on a date with a hb and interest is high but then falls in between should you really not keep in touch every few days so she doesn't forget you?

I apply the 2 strikes rule religiously so if they decline 2 date offers after a first date I next..if they were even interested a little would they remember to contact? Also how long would it take before they did?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dhoulmagus

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Every girl has 10 options and tampons providing them emotional support regardless.
 

LMFAO

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You need to stand out from the crowd. For example in my date last night from an online girl took her out to a bar, after 30 minutes jumped to the seat next to her, held her hand, put a hand rubbing her legs, kissed her, told her I'm tempted to be the corruption of her "how do you feel about that?". Upon leaving the club slapped her arse, went to the corner and put my hand in her back pocket, touched her here and there front and back, invited her back (my place is busy so couldn't do so, she said "someday" which I deliberately misinterpreted as Sunday), told her perhaps I'm too much for her. Make yourself different and unforgettable. At the same time don't give a sh!t either got four more girls for the week and at least one guaranteed weekend bang. :up:
 

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One thing is for sure, if you are worth of remembering, she will not forget you:). Even she meets 200 guys the night she saw you.
 

El Payaso

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Better for her to forget you than to be an orbiter.

In fact, a girl never remembers any of her loser orbiters. The only man she remembers is the nonchalant guy doing what HE wants to do and what makes HIM happy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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