"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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is it right to assume that if she has lots of options she might forget you

pikachu69

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They say on here that you shouldn't contact them to often esp if yhry aren't as interested anymore but if they have 100s of new guys each week (tinder, bars, clubs) surely they won't remember you if there interest fades slightly?

Whenever I have 10 options I end up forgetting 1-2 not that im not interested but I just have too many options that it is natural to forget.

If you go on a date with a hb and interest is high but then falls in between should you really not keep in touch every few days so she doesn't forget you?

I apply the 2 strikes rule religiously so if they decline 2 date offers after a first date I next..if they were even interested a little would they remember to contact? Also how long would it take before they did?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dhoulmagus

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Every girl has 10 options and tampons providing them emotional support regardless.
 

LMFAO

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You need to stand out from the crowd. For example in my date last night from an online girl took her out to a bar, after 30 minutes jumped to the seat next to her, held her hand, put a hand rubbing her legs, kissed her, told her I'm tempted to be the corruption of her "how do you feel about that?". Upon leaving the club slapped her arse, went to the corner and put my hand in her back pocket, touched her here and there front and back, invited her back (my place is busy so couldn't do so, she said "someday" which I deliberately misinterpreted as Sunday), told her perhaps I'm too much for her. Make yourself different and unforgettable. At the same time don't give a sh!t either got four more girls for the week and at least one guaranteed weekend bang. :up:
 

miketan70

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One thing is for sure, if you are worth of remembering, she will not forget you:). Even she meets 200 guys the night she saw you.
 

El Payaso

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Better for her to forget you than to be an orbiter.

In fact, a girl never remembers any of her loser orbiters. The only man she remembers is the nonchalant guy doing what HE wants to do and what makes HIM happy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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