"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it really worth it

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Theres two girls at work who I wouldnt mind getting to know better, and they are here for two months until they need to go back to Europe. Well I also have only two months left until I leave for the military. Well thats not the point, but I wouldnt mind getting to know them better. But I dont want to start something that is going to make them argue with eachother. Should I go for it. Both are pretty hot. Id say about 7 or 8
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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An argument between them is something you can't control. It may happen, it may not happen. But, you should do what you want.
 
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An argument between them is something you can't control. It may happen, it may not happen. But, you should do what you want.
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Yea but seeing as how I have to work with them. It would be akward
 
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Yea but seeing as how I have to work with them. It would be akward
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hey you ask for advice, you get what we give.

and if you never make a move, you'll never see any of the results you hoped for.

you could miss out on something.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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hey you ask for advice, you get what we give.

and if you never make a move, you'll never see any of the results you hoped for.

you could miss out on something.
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I appreciate the advice. I think tommorow Im gonna go in for the kill
 
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Well I didnt get it yesterday due to the fact that we were so busy I had no time to talk to anyone. Today, I actually did miss a few moments due to my AFCness. I saw them getting ready to leave at the same time I was. I kept saying to myself that I refuse to strike out yet again. i went up to one of them and asked if she and the other girl would like to do something sometime. She seemed a little taken away at first, but she started to give me the number. Then her friend came up and told me it was the wrong number and gave me the right one. Wierd I know, but I got a number, and actually pushed aside most of the AFCness
 
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Well I didnt get it yesterday due to the fact that we were so busy I had no time to talk to anyone. Today, I actually did miss a few moments due to my AFCness. I saw them getting ready to leave at the same time I was. I kept saying to myself that I refuse to strike out yet again. i went up to one of them and asked if she and the other girl would like to do something sometime. She seemed a little taken away at first, but she started to give me the number. Then her friend came up and told me it was the wrong number and gave me the right one. Wierd I know, but I got a number, and actually pushed aside most of the AFCness
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Im dying to know, is this a good sign or a bad sign?
 
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Im dying to know, is this a good sign or a bad sign?
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Call the number in a few days.

If she picks up, its a good sign.
If she doesn't... :(
 
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Call the number in a few days.

If she picks up, its a good sign.
If she doesn't... :(
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Im gonna try calling tommorow. afterall, that would be a few days after I got the number. Im nervous about calling because Im still new to all this but Im just going to get in there and do it. No one ever got a girl by sitting around acting like a coward
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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