"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is It Really Me?

ProDJ26

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Okay so the past few days have been absolutely hell on earth. :kick:
It's like I don't freakn exist DJ's! I have been flaked on...ignored...brushed off, etc. take the HB9 that's in my class for example...She has been an absolute Biotch of late which is surprising cause she seemed real cool when school started a week ago:yes: but it ain't that it's the fact that im tired of bein treated lyke sht everywhere i go. Like yesterday I know these guys who seemed cool and there like call us up sometime so we can chill. So I go to chill with them and there like "man we don't no you that way" :confused: What's up with that? I think maybe it's cause im on the skinny side
(5'7 140IBLs) Things are going really frustrating right now so if any body can give me some good decent advice to get my ass back in gear that'll be good.
And on the side note: does anybody know of a good weight gaining plan? :rolleyes:

"MY OLD ONEITIS BIRTHDAY IS SATURDAY" --- yeah i know, nobody cares
(but maybe thats why I haven't been my self lately)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mastersF

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oh come on. listen to daniel powter's bad day. sure times may seem tough for you at the moment, but keep in mind that the sun comes out after a storm clears.

Don't take such things too personally. Some girls and some people must be biatchy and full of crap to other people for them to feel good and better and like their existence has any meaning to it. Square up soldier, they are the ones missing out on your great company
 

young_gun

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Don't think for a second that you're the only one this has ever happened to. For me, it's just been something I've had to accept: more girls are going to be uninterested than interested in me. Lots of girls are happy in relationships, don't like your "type", having bad days, or just plain *****es. You can't let it slow you down. Just be positive and get out there again tomorrow.

P.S. Your size shouldn't be that much of an issue. I wish I were 140 lbs.
 
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