"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is It Really Me?

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ProDJ26

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Okay so the past few days have been absolutely hell on earth. :kick:
It's like I don't freakn exist DJ's! I have been flaked on...ignored...brushed off, etc. take the HB9 that's in my class for example...She has been an absolute Biotch of late which is surprising cause she seemed real cool when school started a week ago:yes: but it ain't that it's the fact that im tired of bein treated lyke sht everywhere i go. Like yesterday I know these guys who seemed cool and there like call us up sometime so we can chill. So I go to chill with them and there like "man we don't no you that way" :confused: What's up with that? I think maybe it's cause im on the skinny side
(5'7 140IBLs) Things are going really frustrating right now so if any body can give me some good decent advice to get my ass back in gear that'll be good.
And on the side note: does anybody know of a good weight gaining plan? :rolleyes:

"MY OLD ONEITIS BIRTHDAY IS SATURDAY" --- yeah i know, nobody cares
(but maybe thats why I haven't been my self lately)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oh come on. listen to daniel powter's bad day. sure times may seem tough for you at the moment, but keep in mind that the sun comes out after a storm clears.

Don't take such things too personally. Some girls and some people must be biatchy and full of crap to other people for them to feel good and better and like their existence has any meaning to it. Square up soldier, they are the ones missing out on your great company
 
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Don't think for a second that you're the only one this has ever happened to. For me, it's just been something I've had to accept: more girls are going to be uninterested than interested in me. Lots of girls are happy in relationships, don't like your "type", having bad days, or just plain *****es. You can't let it slow you down. Just be positive and get out there again tomorrow.

P.S. Your size shouldn't be that much of an issue. I wish I were 140 lbs.
 
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